'Dad told me he loved me by blinking on deathbed'

Phil Cunliffeand
Lynette Horsburgh,North West
News imageFamily handout Emanuel with brown hair wearing a white shirt and black glasses in an office. He is smiling.Family handout
Emanuel died peacefully, surrounded by his family, his daughter said

A teenager has described how her dying father's final act - blinking three times as their code for "I love you" - was something she would "hold with me for the rest of my life".

Emanuel, 53, suffered a cardiac arrest at Salford Crescent station in Greater Manchester in June 2025 and was only revived after 45 minutes of CPR by an off-duty police officer.

Even though Emanuel died 16 days later, his daughter Wiktoria said Ch Insp Michael Parker's actions had given her the "greatest gift of all" - precious extra time with her dad.

Explaining that while Emanuel had not been able to talk, she said he had communicated with his eyes and "blinked three times and then never opened his eyes again".

News imageFamily photograph Emanuel, Wiktoria and Claudia all sitting on a burgundy velvet sofa hugging one another. They are all smiling. Family photograph
Wiktoria said her dad's dying act was "something I'm going to hold with me for the rest of my life"

She said her father, who was a civil engineer, had died with family around him and it had been "very peaceful".

Wiktoria, now 17, explained: "He couldn't talk but me and him found a way of communicating through blinks.

"I said 'Dad, blinking once means yes; blinking twice means no' and then for the last time I said 'Can you blink three times to say I love you?'

"He blinked three times and then never opened his eyes again, so I think that was the greatest gift of them all.

"That's something I'm going to hold with me for the rest of my life."

News imageCh Insp Michael Parker (left) in his Greater Manchester Police (GMP) uniform talking to Wiktoria with brown hair tied back wearing a cream blazer and black top and her mother Claudia with brown bobbed hair wearing a brown coat and grey jumper. They are all side on standing in front of a GMP logo on the wall behind them.
Wiktoria (centre) said the actions of Ch Insp Michael Parker had allowed the family more precious time with her father

About seven months after Emanuel's death, Wiktoria and her mother Claudia met the "hero" chief inspector whose actions had given them extra time together as a family.

Parker said he had been on his way home from work when he spotted Emanuel had collapsed on the floor and was not breathing.

He said adrenaline had kicked in and he "just did what any member of the public would have done".

Wiktoria said: "If it weren't for Mike, I would have just got a phone call saying he passed away and that would have been 10 times worse.

"I don't think we've got any words that could possibly describe how grateful we are."

Claudia said he was their "angel", adding: "He gave to us a very important gift - 16 days more with Emanuel."

Although Parker played down his actions, he was commended at GMP's long service awards, where he was presented with a Chief Constable's commendation.

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