Women admitted to gentleman's club for first time

Owen SennittLocal Democracy reporter
News imageEdd Smith/BBC A view down historic Elm Hill in Norwich, a narrow cobbled street. A 16th Century oak-beamed building stands to the left, with black framed latticed windows. Its ground floor plasterwork is painted a sandy colour. The street has a thin path either side of the cobbles, with the old buildings either side creating a continuous terrace which curves to the right in the distance. A man looks in the window of a shop further along the street. Edd Smith/BBC
The Strangers Club (left) is based in a 16th Century house on Elm Hill

One of Norfolk's last remaining traditional gentlemen's clubs has agreed to allow women to join for the first time in its 99-year history.

The Strangers Club in Norwich hosts lunches, talks and other activities for its members, all of whom have been men.

It introduced the new policy following a vote, with the daughter of the club's president admitted as the first female member.

Collette Thompson, a surgeon, said the club was an "antidote" to the digital age, "offering a space where you can meet people face to face and have conversations over a meal."

"When my dad first joined when I was a teenager, and I learnt they didn't allow female members, I thought it was behind the times," she added.

"It is great, it has opened up. My main reason for joining was that we live in a digital world, and lots of communication is done by text or email.

"This has its benefits, but you lose a sense of community."

News imageThompson family A man and woman pose for a selfie, with the background of a sandy bay and a grey-blue sea. The woman is standing to the left, has long brown hair, sunglasses on top of her head and has blue eyes. She is wearing a dark blue hooded top. The man to her right is taller, balding, with grey hair at the sides of his head. He has brown eyes and is wearing a zipped-up fleece in two shades of blue. Both are smiling at the camera. Thompson family
Collette Thompson can now attend the club with her dad, Stephen

The Strangers Club was established in 1927 as a place for the leading figures from the city's professional community, such as lawyers, doctors and business leaders.

The change was approved by a vote of 82%, meaning almost a fifth of members opposed the introduction of women.

President Stephen Thompson, who instigated the vote, said the club would have been open to women had it been founded today.

"We continue to aspire to be the premier club for the professional and business community, and although women had always been welcomed to social events at the club, it was obvious that we had to open membership to women.

"Some people were passionate for us not to do this, but the vast majority were supportive.

"It is not unreasonable to have some people who find change difficult but we have not had anyone resign from the club over this issue."

News imageThe Strangers Club About 24 women seated either side of a long table laid out for a formal dinner. The table has a white tablecloth and is covered with wine glasses. They are in a dimly lit room with a mirror on the wall at the opposite end of the image, and a portrait of the late Queen hanging above an old fireplace.The Strangers Club
The Strangers Club already hosted ladies' dinners for members' wives and partners

One member, who did not wish to be named, told the Local Democracy Reporting Service that it could spell "the death of the club".

They added: "Personally, I do not see the reason to change the rules and allow women members."

"This club is steeped in tradition, and a lot of the members do not like change."

The club has received five applications from women, three of whom are daughters of existing members.

The Norfolk Club in Upper King Street, Norwich, opened up its membership some 30 years ago, with The City Club in Colegate believed to be Norfolk's final men-only club of its type.

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