'I scattered my husband's ashes using a drone'

Holly PhillipsEast Yorkshire and Lincolnshire
News imageJenny Fox Jenny Fox stood on a sandy beach with the sea behind her. She is wearing black jeans, brown boots, a long black padded coat and a colourful scarf. She has short blonde hair and is wearing glasses. She is smiling at the camera. On her right is a large drone containing her husband's ashes. The sky is overcast.Jenny Fox
Jenny Fox used a drone to scatter her husband Alan's ashes over the North Sea

A woman who had her husband's ashes scattered over the North Sea by a drone says he "would've loved it".

Jenny Fox, 70, from near Alford, Lincolnshire, arranged for a drone to carry her husband Alan's ashes out over the beach at Skegness.

Family and friends gathered on the sand as the drone circled above them before scattering his ashes into the sea.

"It was absolutely fantastic," she said. "I've not got words to describe how wonderful it was."

Alan died in May 2025 in Lincoln County Hospital after suffering from bladder cancer and chronic kidney failure.

He had served in the Royal Navy and worked as a fisherman, often on beaches along the East Coast.

The pair were together for 40 years, married for 38, and spent their retirement walking Lincolnshire's coast.

News imageJenny Fox A head and shoulder photo of Jenny's husband, Alan, stood smiling at the camera. He has very short, balding hair and is wearing a light grey sweater, a brown fleece and a red lanyard. Behind him in the distance is Lincoln Cathedral. Jenny Fox
Alan died in May 2025 in Lincoln County Hospital

Jenny said she chose to scatter his ashes by drone to honour his career and love of aviation.

"His death affected all of us last year quite badly, it was a very sad occasion," she said.

"However, the scattering of his ashes was a dignified farewell and a celebration of his life.

"It might sound silly to say that we all enjoyed it but we did, we just knew that he would've loved it."

Jenny said her husband's ashes have been sitting at the bottom of a wardrobe and that he would be glad to finally be out of it.

"I didn't really want to scatter him in the garden because I'd probably get covered in the ashes if the wind caught me," she laughed.

Jenny said the ceremony brought more comfort to her than the funeral.

Matt Young, owner of Aerial Ashes, the company that carried out the scattering, said the process gave bereaved people "a lot of peace and closure".

"It's such a special thing to be able to help people like that," he said.

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