'Other bereaved dads opened their hearts to me for new film'

Lynette HorsburghNorth West
News imageDerian House handout Black and white image of two men hugging. One of the men (right) who is facing the camera has a grey beard and hair and is wearing a grey hoodie with the logo Derian Dads on it. He is smiling. Derian House handout
Paul Woodward says while there are heartbreaking stories in the film there is also hope and laughter

A dad whose son was cared for in a children's hospice before his death said other bereaved fathers who have lost a child "opened their hearts" to him in a new documentary.

Paul Woodward's first film 'The Little Things' was released on Amazon Prime last year and featured the work of Derian House in Chorley.

He said it was a "personal thank you" about for the "incredible" care they gave his son Kalel for seven years until his death in 2019 at the age of 11.

His latest documentary 'Voice Again', released on Friday, shows the "raw and deeply moving" conversation had by grieving dads at the hospice, but also moments of "hope and laughter".

News imageDerian House handout A group of bereaved dads - some wearing grey hoodies with a Derian Dads logo on it - and staff outside an in-house cinema inside Derian House Children's Hospice for the premiere of a documentary. They are all smiling.Derian House handout
Derian Dads had a special premiere of the Voice Again documentary

The 18-minute film, captured entirely on an iPhone, gives a voice to the hospice's grieving fathers and reveals the bonds they have created at Derian House.

"From day one, the dads opened their hearts to me and to this film," he said.

Woodward said the Derian Dads breavement group is a safe space where they can talk openly about grief over a cup of tea or a takeaway.

"That trust makes all the difference when you place a camera in the room.

"It quickly became a space of comfort, honesty and friendship, and I feel incredibly proud to have been welcomed into it."

News imagePaul Woodward Paul Woodward is sitting next to his son Kalel with his hand resting on his head. Kalel is sticking his tongue out while Paul is smiling. Paul Woodward
Paul Woodward says his first film was a "personal thank you" to Derian House for the care they gave his late son Kalel for seven years

He said the film features "truly heart-breaking stories - moments no parent should ever have to live through".

"The conversations are raw and deeply moving. But alongside the grief, there is hope, and there is laughter.

"That's because of the care Derian House continues to give these families, and the friendships the dads have built with one another," he said.

"The hospice doesn't just support you through your child's life - it supports you afterwards too. And that ongoing care and connection is something incredibly powerful to witness."

The fathers featured in the documentary had a special premiere at Derian House's in-house cinema on Wednesday.

Woodward hopes 'Voice Again' is the first in a series of documentary shorts on the hospice, building on the success of 'The Little Things' and shining a light on stories that did not make it into the film.

He who worked alongside Steve Pemberton, the co-creator of The League of Gentlemen and star of ITV's Benidorm sitcom, and director Thomas Elliott Griffiths in the production of 'The Little Things'.

News imagePaul Woodward Paul Woodward with grey hair and beard takes a selfie in a room with filming equipment behind him. A table and sofa is in the background with patio doors leading to decking in a garden to the left. Paul is smiling.Paul Woodward
Paul Woodward says he hopes Voice Again will be the first in a series of documentary shorts on Derian House

He said he hopes 'Voice Again' encourages men across the UK "to come together and recognise that safe spaces do exist if we choose to reach out".

"If this group of men can support one another and make a positive difference in each other's lives, then others can too," he added.

Karen Edwards OBE, chief executive at Derian House, said: "Paul is a fantastic patron of Derian House and has already done so much to raise awareness of the work we do.

"The Little Things brought Derian House to screens around the world, but there are still many stories to be told, and we're grateful that Paul wants to continue creating films about us."

She said supporting bereaved parents was a "vital part of the care" it provides and the short documentary will "showcase the courage, resilience, and even the humour that Derian House dads find in one another".

She added: "It sends a powerful message to the world that hospices continue to be here for families long after the loss of a child."

News imageDerian House A view from behind bereaved dads watching Voice Again documentary on a large TV screen inside Derian House Children Hospice's in-house cinema.Derian House
Derian House has an in-house cinema where the film was screened for the dad's

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