Man jailed for £11k romance fraud scam

Daniel SextonSouth East
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Andrew Milne met his victim on a dating website in 2019

A man has been jailed for two years over a romance fraud in which he scammed his victim out of £11,000.

Andrew Cosham, 57, of Milne Way, Isle of Wight appeared at Hove Crown Court on Monday, where a restraining order was also imposed preventing him from being in direct or indirect contact with his victim.

During their relationship, which lasted just under three years, police said Cosham made false promises that they would get married and buy a house together once his bank account containing £3 million had been unfrozen when a divorce appeal was finalised.

The couple viewed multiple houses, and the victim even paid for the survey of one property, Sussex Police said.

However, Cosham would always claim there were issues with the houses and they would have to look for another.

'Used sister's account'

Cosham lied to the victim about needing money to repay council tax, and he claimed to have debts with a storage company and with his phone provider, police said.

He also told her lies about needing money to help his sister who was in poor health.

"Using his elderly sister's bank account to obtain the money from the victim he would withdraw large sums to spend on other things," a police spokesperson said.

"[His sister] was not involved with the offending," they added.

Cosham convinced the victim to give him over £11,000 all under the guise of consistently promising to pay her back once his bank account was unfrozen.

He ghosted her and never repaid the money, police said.

Cosham's victim reported the fraud to police in September 2022, and he was arrested on suspicion of fraud by false representation in November 2023.

He was charged with the same offence on 29 September 2025 and pleaded guilty at Worthing Magistrates' Court the following month.

Det Sgt Rodney Davis said: "Romance fraud is a particularly cruel offence.

"The financial loss can have lasting consequences, but the emotional impact from the extensive manipulation by fraudsters can be truly devastating."

He stressed: "Romance fraud is never the victim's fault."

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