Women share pride in their ancestry in documentary

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News imageJonny Osayamwen Louise Ndibwirende is smiling, she has shoulder length dark brown hair and wears a patterned top. There is a plant in the foreground, to one side, and she is sat on a brown leather chair with a brown fabric sheet behind her. Jonny Osayamwen
Louise Ndibwirende made the film to tell the stories of three women's connection to their ancestry

A woman born in Rwanda, now living in Bristol, has created a documentary about "what it means to have pride in your heritage and ancestry".

Former carer Louise Ndibwirende, 37, made the film after being accepted onto a creative program run by the Black South West Network (BSWN), a racial justice charity based in Bristol.

The documentary, Rice at Home, tells the story of three women who have roots in Rwanda, India and Bangladesh, and will be shown at Watershed on Saturday.

"I nearly didn't do this film because I thought it was just a niche feeling for me, but the world needs more of our stories out there, and they need to be told by us instead for us," Ndibwirende said.

"We'd actually all be surprised how our own lived experience can be so relatable and so healing and encouraging for others," added Ndibwirende who was adopted by a French couple when she was three years old and later moved to England.

'Rice at home' is a well-known African saying which signifies that an abundance of what people need is already around them, Ndibwirende explained.

News imageJimmy Osayamwen The crew on set of Rice at Home. There are multiple people in a room with a brown wooden door. A black man to the right of the photo, in a green shirt is controlling a camera. Various people are standing around, concentrating on a focal point off screen.Jimmy Osayamwen
Racial justice charity the Black South West Network helped fund the project

The film was produced by Martha Redfern, a Bristol-based producer specialising in telling women's stories.

It brings together the three women through discussion of culture, religion and assimilating while staying connected with their roots.

Ndibwirende said: "I'm just excited to see the audience reaction, how they feel and hearing how they expand on their own stories."

News imageJonny Osayamwen Fidesi Murica, Shoba Ram, Rayhana Rahman stood together facing the camera. They are wearing colourful, traditional dresses, Fidesi has on a white top with a pale green shawl, she has dark brown skin and black hair tied back. Shoba, in the centre, has long black hair and is wearing a red and black dress. Rayhana on the right, is wearing a dark teal headscarf and a blue and white patterned top.Jonny Osayamwen
(L-R) Fidesi Murica, Shoba Ram, Rayhana Rahman all tell their stories through the documentary

Fidesi Murica, 52, a support worker from Rwanda who features in the documentary, was born in a refugee camp in Uganda, she now lives in Bath.

With shared roots in Rwanda, Ndibwirende said it was "really important", for her to have someone who represented her own cultural heritage on screen.

Murica said: "I grew up with a passion that I had to feel because of what we were going through, being rejected, being discriminated, being bullied, being hated."

But through filming the documentary, she said, she found "a way you can help each other, you encourage each other".

Bristol-based Shoba Ram, 45, a consultant in drug policy and harm reduction who met Ndibwirende while taking part in a leadership program, discusses her Indian heritage in the film.

She said being a part of Rice at Home was, "a really phenomenal experience [...] we didn't know each other, but we connected".

"I think it's a conversation that can be so diluted, and it's important to say that people can open those doors to become part of a culture," she added.

Career coach Rayhana Rahman, 56, who previously mentored Ndibwirende, discussed her Bangladeshi culture in the film.

"It feels really refreshing to remind people that this culture that you have, or this faith that you have, is valuable and is worth celebrating and recognising," she said.

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