What do you do if you don't celebrate Christmas?

Gerry BradleyBBC News NI
News imageBobby Rao Bobby Rao is standing beside his wife Josephine. There is a Christmas tree covered in baubles and light beside her. She has short blond hair and is wearing a glittery gold top. He is wearing a beige formal jacket/shirt which has no button at the top. Bobby Rao
Bobby Rao is Hindu but is happy to go to midnight Mass with his wife Josephine

Former international cricketer Bobby Rao has a very important job on 25 December - he's on turkey duty.

Born in Hyderabad, Bobby played test cricket for India in the 1970s but has lived in Strabane, County Tyrone, since 1980.

As a Hindu, 25 December does not hold any religious significance, but he and his Christian wife Josephine enjoy celebrating each other's traditions, with midnight Mass on Christmas Eve a definite on the festive calendar.

"As a Hindu, we respect all the religions, that's how we were brought up," he said.

"I have a lot of Christian friends back home in India, so we celebrated [Christmas] with them, we went to their homes and celebrated and when we had our Diwali [Hindu Festival of Lights] they came."

On Christmas Day, they will have more than two dozen friends around for a traditional turkey dinner, followed on Boxing Day by an Indian banquet.

"I'll be stuffing the turkey, my wife taught me how to do all that, so we have a perfect Christmas here."

News imageNorth West Migrants Forum Farida Hassan is standing in front of a huge Christmas tree - only the bottom is showing. She is wearing a beige jacket and a headscarf. North West Migrants Forum
Farida Hassan, who is Muslim and originally from Sudan, says she loves the Christmas celebrations in Northern Ireland

Farida Hassan, a Muslim from Sudan, is spending her first Christmas in Northern Ireland.

Now living in Londonderry, she said she loved the way it brings families and communities together.

"It's the first time for me to see the celebrations of Christmas," she said.

"I know it means a lot for Christian people, it's a big celebration for Christians and they just stay at home with their families and that's an amazing thing.

"The place where I live [in the Bogside] I see a lot of people doing the lights and I say to them on the street 'Merry Christmas' and they say 'Merry Christmas to you, love, Merry Christmas'."

And while she does not have a Christmas tree of her own, she likes to see her neighbours' decorations.

On Christmas Day itself, she will have Sudanese-style chicken dinner with friends and just relax.

News imageReuters A menorah with light beams projecting from its branches stands in front of the National Gallery alongside a decorated Christmas tree during celebrations in Trafalgar Square in London on 16 December 2025.Reuters
Beams of light were projected from a menorah in Trafalgar Square in London to celebrate Hanukkah

Hanukkah, the eight-day Jewish festival of lights, ended on 22 December this year.

Michael Black, who is deputy chairman of the Belfast Jewish Community, said it had been a very anxious time following the attack on Jewish people in Bondi Beach.

Fifteen people were killed and dozens more injured when two gunmen opened fire on a Hanukkah celebration on 14 December.

"It's terrible, it's a terrible atrocity," he said, adding that the wider community here were "very supportive".

Like many non-Christians, some Jews have adopted some of the traditions associated with Christmas.

In 2023, a survey from the Institute of Jewish Policy Research, found that in the UK almost three in 10 (28%) said they put up a Christmas tree some years, most years or every year.

"We don't celebrate the religious festival of Christmas," he said.

"It only coincides with the Jewish festival of Hanukkah.

"Having said that, some families - especially where there are mixed marriages - will have a Christmas dinner, non-religious, where they will probably give presents to the children, just so that our own children don't feel left out."