'10 years ago I rocked up and I've been here ever since'

Alex Pope
News imageFourth Wall Photography Terry Gleed, with short blonde hair, with his eyes crossed and making a face, with his tongue stuck out, with a microphone at his mouth. He is wearing a red shirt, with a colourful jacket over the top. Fourth Wall Photography
Terry Gleed appeared in Jack and the Beanstalk at the Marina Theatre, Lowestoft in 2022

For many families one of the biggest traditions at Christmas is having a turkey dinner, but going to see a pantomime might be a close second.

Along with actors from popular TV shows, many theatres feature the same actors, in the same role, year in and year out.

So why do they do it and why is pantomime such an annual draw for them?

News imageThe Grove Theatre Dunstable Will Kenning, dressed up as a dame, wearing heavy make-up, a wig, including curlers and bubbles, and a blue spotted dress with big puffy sleeves. The Grove Theatre Dunstable
Will Kenning as Widow Twanky in Aladdin in 2021

Will Kenning has been a pantomime dame for more than 15 years, meaning he plays the role of a woman, complete with over-the-top costumes, make-up and wigs.

It was a role he first played in 2010 at the New Wolsey in Ipswich, and he continued there for three years in the theatre's "rock'n'roll pantos".

Then in 2017 he performed for the first time at The Grove Theatre, Dunstable, Bedfordshire, close to where he lives in Leighton Buzzard, as having a young family meant he could see his own children more often.

The actor, director and writer, has remained there and is now described on the theatre's poster as "Dunstable's favourite".

News imageThe Grove Theatre Six actors on stage, dressed in colourful costumes as punks. One is sat on a motorbike, with one standing on a seat next to him. The two in the middle have their arms out. Stage scenery is behind them. The Grove Theatre
Will (fourth right) was one of the ugly sisters in Cinderella in 2022

"I absolutely love it; I feel immensely lucky to have found a home there," he said.

"If you think about how many theatres there are, there aren't that many people who get to be a resident dame — it's a sought-after privilege.

"To serve a town and to be a regular — it's almost like being a cheap celebrity.

"I've proved my chops for a good decade, and it keeps me home for Christmas.

"In 10 years time I hope to be a Dunstable legend.

"It's a lot of silly nonsense but I take it seriously."

News imagePortalworks Photography Ben Parsley, dressed in yellow and red jesters outfit, with a cap on the wrong way, with his arms outstretched. He is by a stage, with a set painted behind him. Portalworks Photography
Ben Parsley says "ever since I've been a child I've wanted to be an actor and perform"

The Harlow Playhouse in Essex is the second home of Ben Parsley, who was born and bred in the town.

Over the past year he's developed the role of Silly Billy, and is also the venue's technical manager.

News imageBen Parsley Ben Parsley, holding a water bottle, wearing all black, with a headset on and holding a white toilet seat, he is backstage at a theatre. Ben Parsley
Ben Parsley working backstage in his first pantomime, Aladdin, in 2010
News imageBen Parsley A large wedding party, throwing their arms up in the air, throwing up streamers, sitting in rows of red theatre seats. They are mostly looking up. There are two aisles either side of the seats. Ben Parsley
Ben was even married at The Playhouse

He describes himself as a comedy actor and has been working in pantomime for 15 years and, to put it mildly, has a "very long history with the Playhouse".

"In 1971 my grandfather, Roger Parsley, founded Harlow Youth Theatre. It's where my parents met, where I saw my first ever panto, Aladdin, with my mum in the lead, where I was in my first show, aged eight in Blitz, where I met my wife, working on a panto and where we were married," he said.

News imageBen Parsley A black and white image of several children taking part in an acting activity. Some are sitting down, some standing and some kneeling. They are making funny faces. Ben Parsley
Ben Parsley said his parents are both in the front row of this photo from Harlow — his dad wears a crown, while mum has a hamster's head in front of her knees

He says he started off behind the scenes and worked his way on to the stage and eight years ago made his debut in the comedy part, Silly Billy, and has never looked back.

"It's instantaneous, you get told [by the audience] if you're doing a good job," he said.

"You're in a relationship with them. It would take a nonsense offer to get me out of the Playhouse. It's my home and it has been for 16 years.

"I owe a lot to this building and I don't feel like I've paid it back yet."

He says finding out that some people come to the pantomime just to see him is "very humbling".

"I find it really bizarre, I'm just me," he said.

"It's an honour and I want to do everyone proud and make sure everyone has a smile on their face."

News imagePortalworks Photography Three actors on stage, the one on the left is dresses as a dame, with blonde wig, heavy make-up and a yellow dress, a man in the middle is holding a box and laughing, wearing a blue and yellow outfit, with a pink cap and a woman on the end, wearing blue dungarees and a flowery top. Portalworks Photography
Ben Parsley was in Dick Whittington in 2024

In 2015, Terry Gleed first performed at the Marina Theatre, Lowestoft, Suffolk.

"Ten years ago I rocked up here and they've liked what I did, so next year they said 'could we have Terry back?' and I've been here ever since," he said.

This year he is in Sleeping Beauty, where he's playing Chester the Jester, and the poster calls him "Lowestoft's Favourite".

News imageFourth Wall Photography Terry, dressed in a white wig, with a microphone on his face, wearing a white top, bodice, blue skirt and shawl. He is at a pretend bar, with two glasses in front of him. Fourth Wall Photography
Terry Gleed said he "just likes making people smile and making them happy"

The musical theatre-trained performer says he's not a comedian, but a comic character actor.

He's appeared in pantomimes for more than 20 years including in Aladdin, Jack and the Beanstalk and Peter Pan.

He says he's not a local lad, but from Wraysbury, Berkshire.

"I have to keep reminding people I'm not from around here, but it's like coming home," he said.

"I'm very happy in my work. Panto is the one time you can be with a full company and do what I love. I'm very fulfilled and long may it continue.

"When I first come on stage, I put my arms out and I stand there and they just clap.

"I feel like I'm performing in front of friends and it's a wonderful thing."

News imageRichard Hubert Smith A scene from a pantomime shows a man in a blue and white dress, dressed as a dame, holding his arm out. There is scenery behind him. Richard Hubert Smith
Matt Crosby can be seen in his 20th year as a dame at The Arts Theatre Cambridge until 4 January

For Matt Crosby it is his 20th time playing the Dame at The Arts Theatre Cambridge, that has just reopened after renovation.

That means for two decades he has been in over 1,200 performances and seen by more than half a million audience members. This year he will be Nanny Nutkins in Sleeping Beauty.

"I was always in awe of the many Dames I've worked with (and watched) over the years.

"It's quite the challenge and one that I never expected to pursue."

He says several years ago he asked the director if he could "give it a go" and luckily he did.

"I don't know what attracted me more to it. Was it the fact that the Dame is generally the lynchpin of any panto or was it more to do with the array of colourful costumes that she gets to wear?"

He says he still loves the magic of panto in the city that is his "second home" and the art form should be "praised".

"When things go wrong, and trust me, sometimes things can go wrong, we're in safe hands knowing that we're all in it together.

"My children have grown up on panto and I love it when they come to watch.

"Long may it reign."

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