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Thursday, 05 February 2009

LOVE :OUR ANIVERSARY NUMBER 3

Hi guys I just want to share with you my own experience of been married.As I told you my dear husband is such an amazing man, I feel very lucky.
I will tell you that our story is special because when we met each other was because he was my cousin´s friend. Two years ago I knew about him thanks to my Aunt because she told me his life and litle by little I started to admire him, but even I didn´t know him face to face. Until once upon...... ja ja well my cousin went to pick me up to my university and he was there the famous man that my aunt told me ,he was in front of me, at the beggining I thought ok he is a goodlooking man but I was thinking in other things.
Months later I saw him at my university and I said Oh my God I know him since then I always looked at him in any place of my university ( what a crazy girl no?)
After that we met each other and God allowed to be fell in love.

Now that I´m married is a good stage of my personal life but everything is not so easy because we have to understand each other , we have to be very patience and very creative to prepare some surprises.
The principal point is that you have to believe in love even if you think is not so good with you but hey there isn´t anything easy right? .Before I met my husband I had good relationships and I know that sometimes in your life think : Why love is so hard? And finally I have the answer Love is hard because it has something prepared for you.

Let me tell you a phrase of Teresa de Calcuta is something like this: “It´s not enough loving” and there is another phrase in one Latin song: “Without pain you are not going to be happy” So the conclusion for me is to continue beliving in love any kind of love: look at your side the love between parents, family, nature.We are a result of love thanks God for this amazing feeeling

I wish you could find love any time in your life and share it with the world ¡¡¡¡¡¡
Lily

Comments

Hello Lily! Congratulations for your anniversary! i don't know a lot about love because i haven't fallen in love yet even i am 23. i just think that love is a such feeling, which has been coming for many years. we love those who are valueable for us. we don't love people not knowing them. that's why in my mind love is just feeling, got used to. but it's just my opinion. maybe it'll be changed when i fall in love. who knows! :) Good luck for your coming writings!

Hi, Lily. What a lovely page you wrote! We have something in commom : I'm studying to be an English teacher too. I'm married for 23 years: a little more than you!! I agree with you : we have to be very patient to each other, we have to be creative to dribble the routine and bad times. But, after all I can asure you that when you look back you see LIFE: your life, your growing through the relationship, the kids (they are adults and we never stop calling them kids). The bad times are always present, but the good things are there too, making part of what you are. Good Luck ! I hope we have a good month. bye

Hi Lily How kind you are!!you love, as return all kinds of love will surround you!! wonderful picture you posted which transmits happiness and love, couple of you are so good-looking and experienced romantic loving story,the loving story will continue and never end and just belong to both of you!!i am very lucky like you because i also have a amazing wife who is besutiful and understanding and we have been in love for more than 5 years(it sounds the time a bit more than yours),we love each other and encourage each other to make our life better and better!!but in my family my mother is suffering misery because one of my sister is facing divorce which is a huge disaster affecting my sister's emotion, and she often quarrel with my mother for being criticized by my mum with her odd behaviours!! i love my family i love all of members of my family i hope all of them can be happy and healthy i pray my god can can give us happiness and i pray for couple of you!!!your friend DIno

Thank you for your sharing. At first, congratulations to you. You are the most happiness lady in the world judging from your sweet smile in the photo. Love is the most beautiful emotion of the human beings.I firmly believe that love play a imoprtant role in my life. I will take good care of my love.

Hi Lilli, it's really nice to see that you're a keen blogger, I guess it means that we have a lot of work to do this month, it'll be a real challenger keep up to date with your entrys, speacially for me that, have so many things to do during all week. But don't get me wrong, because it always nice when a come back from work and turn on my computer and see that I'll have something really interesting to read, Keep up the good work! Well have said all that, I think Ana Paula is in dangerous of loose the title of the most keen blogger of this blog of all time. : ) Best Wishes Bruno.

Hi Lily! Thank you for sharing the very personal story with us. It seems your marriage made in heaven, and indeed, your husband looks so handsome and you are gorgeous in the picture, too. God helps us find our own love, but I believe that making the love work perfectly rests on your shoulders. In my view, Giving and taking love rightfully are not easy at all because they can be easily misjudged, and it sometimes stirs up trouble in a relationship. My marriage has been taught me that never doubt your love and keep faith with your spouse.Would you except my belated congratulation on your 3rd wedding anniversaries? I wish you the best of luck in your marriage. Have a good day!

Hi Lilly!First of all allow me to congratulate you and your husband on your anniversary. Marriage is a liminal event in one's life, an almost magical innitiation rite, with its ups and downs. I wish you mostly ups and I look forward in getting to know more about your wonderful country. Diana, Sweden

Dear Lily, you look extremely happy! I wish you and your husband to keep this fragile gift of love! Your frankness and patience will help you :) Best wishes xx

Hi Lily, good story. Life is plenty of wonderful surprises. I feel you are very observant of little life details. Life is a long drink which must be drunk in little sips. See you, Toni

Hi, what a wonderfull story, you and your husband look happy on the picture. Let me congratulate you and your husband with your anniversary=) I think love plays important role in our life, love is everywhere even somitimes we can't notice it. Thanks for your story, and till next post, wish you luck on your marriage, bye.

Hi Lily, What a lovely love story! I also met my hubby through a commom friend! There is usually a cupid to help us out! YOu both look beuatiful, and suit each other! A genuine Latin couple!Yours latin brats will certainly be cute!My husband happens to look like yours, he is Indian Bolivian decendent.We had a German friend who used to call him Manoelito! However, I´m blond and decend form German, English, Portuguese... it is a nice blend! Well, I´m sorry but I do not agree that happiness should come with pain and vice verse! For me happiness can be found in love as well. And I did have many happy moments without a single pain!!!As Toni mentioned life is certainly like a pandora box, full of surprises! But I always expect good ones!

Hi Lily! I am married too and know exactly what you are talking about. Nice photo of you and your husband.

Congratulations for you! I wish you a happy and long long, never ending love. Me and my husband have been living together for 18 years. Some days before, I got up very early and watched my husband sleeping. I noticed that there is a little wrinkle under his eyes. I don't remember this wrinkle. And what a beautiful wrinkle it is!!!

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