Mataano ay dhalashadoodu daqiiqado u dhaxeysay - balse labo aabbe oo kala duwan leh

Mataanaha Michelle iyo Lavinia Osbourne waxay mar walba wadaagi jireen xiriir gaar ah. Laakiin bishii Sebtembar 2022, markii Lavinia ay furtay iimayl ay ku jireen natiijooyinka tijaabo DNA ah oo lagu sameeyay guriga, waxay dareentay cabsi weyn. "Malaha si hoose ayaan hore u ogaa," ayay tiri.

Natiijooyinku waxay muujiyeen xaqiiqo la yaab leh: inkastoo Michelle iyo Lavinia ay yihiin mataano aan isku ekeyn, haddana ma wadaagaan aabbaha. Si dabiici ah ayay u uur galeen, hal ilmo galeen ayay ku wada sugnaayeen, isla jal hooyo ayaa dhashay dhowr daqiiqo gudahood—laakiin waa walaalo kala aabbe ah.

Michelle iyo Lavinia, oo hadda ah 49 jir, waxay ku dhasheen hab bayooloji oo aad naadir u ah oo loo yaqaan heteropaternal superfecundation. Tani waxay dhacdaa marka haweeneydu soo saarto in ka badan hal ukun hal wareeg gudaheed, ugxamahaasna ay bacrimiso shahwo ka kala timaadda rag kala duwan.

Dunida oo dhan, qiyaastii 20 kiis oo keliya ayaa la diiwaangeliyay. Ka dib baaris dheer oo looga sameeyay sheekadooda barnaamijka BBC Radio 4 ee The Gift, waxaa la ogaaday in Michelle iyo Lavinia ay yihiin mataanaha kaliya ee UK laga diiwaangeliyay ee leh aabbayaal kala duwan.

Xaqiiqadani waxay Lavinia ku noqotay mid aad u murugo badan. Carruurnimadoodii waxay ahayd mid adag; marba guri iyo daryeele ayaa loo kala wareejin jiray. Xasiloonidii keliya ee ay heysteen waxay ahayd midba midka kale inuu la jiro. "Iyadu waxay ahayd waxa kaliya ee aniga ii gaar ahaa," ayay Lavinia tiri. "Kadibna sidaas ma noqon."

Markii Lavinia ay warka la wadaagtay mataanteeda, Michelle aragtideedu way ka duwaneyd. "Anigu lama yaabin," ayay tiri. "Weli waan la yaabbanahay sida ay tani u dhici karto—waa yaab iyo dhif—laakiin waa macquul."

Hooyada Michelle iyo Lavinia waxay ahayd gabadh 19 jir ah oo aad u nugul markii ay ku dhashay Nottingham sannadkii 1976.

"Waxay la kulantay xadgudub uu u geysan jiray aabbaheed korsaday," ayay Michelle tiri. "Hooyaday intii ay carruur ahayd, marba guri daryeel iyo marba xarun carruur ah ayay ku wareegi jirtay."

Mar kasta oo gabdhaha mataanaha ah ay weydiiyaan cidda aabbahood ah, hooyadood mar walba waxay ku jawaabi jirtay inuu ahaa nin la oran jiray James. "Nolosheenna kama mid ahayn," ayay Michelle sii raacisay.

Hooyadood sidoo kale inta badan way ka maqneyd noloshooda. Markii ay shan jir ahaayeen, waxay heshay fursad ay jaamacad ugu barato London, waxayna carruurteeda kaga tagtay Nottingham oo ay ku nooleyd hooyada saaxiibteed ugu dhow, oo mataanuhu ay ugu yeeri jireen "ayeeyo".

"Ayeeyo waxay ahayd qof adag – ma ahayn mid shucuur badan, mana ahayn mid koolkoolisa. Waxa kaliya ee joogtada ii ahaa wuxuu ahaa Michelle," ayay Lavinia tiri.

Inta ay mataanteeda haysatay, Michelle waxay sheegtay inay dareemaysay ammaan.

"Annaga ayay ahayd, iyada iyo aniga, iyo adduunka oo dhan oo naga soo horjeeda."

Markii ay gaareen 10 sano, gabdhuhu waxay hooyadood kula midoobeen London. Laakiin dhowr sano gudahood, Lavinia iyo Michelle mar kale ayaa la diray si ay ugu noolaadaan mid ka mid ah guryihii hore ee daryeelka ee ay hooyadood ku noolaan jirtay. Ma ay fahmi karin sababta hooyadood uga doorbidday inay iska musaafuriso.

"Jir ahaan iyo dareen ahaanba, mar walba way naga fogeyd," ayay tiri Lavinia.

Ka dib markii uu ka maqnaa inta badan carruurnimadooda, James ayaa dib ugu soo laabtay noloshooda markii mataanuhu ay ku jireen da'da dhexe ee kuraynimada (qiyaastii 14–16 jir).

Lavinia waxay ku guulaysatay inay hesho aabbaheed, iyadoo u malaynaysay inay isku aragto astaamo ay wadaagaan iyada iyo isaga, balse Michelle marna ma hubin inuu yahay aabbaheed. Gudaha qalbigeeda, shaki joogto ah ayaa ka jiray.

Dabayaaqadii 2021, hooyadood waxaa ku dhacay xusuus‑lumis hore, mana ay awoodin inay ka jawaabto su'aalahooda. Michelle waxay aragtay sawirka James, taas oo ka sii qancisay in aanu aabbaheed ahayn.

"Waxaan is iri, xitaa waxba iskuma ekediin," ayay Michelle tiri. "Markaas ayaan iibsaday qalab tijaabo ah."

Markaad samayso tijaabada DNA‑ga, waxaad shaaca ka qaadaysaa xaqiiqooyin ku saabsan qoyskaaga iyo naftaada labadaba. Laakiin Michelle kama ay fikirin sida natiijooyinku u saamayn karaan Lavinia markii ay dirtay muunaddeeda si loo falanqeeyo.

Natiijooyinka ayaa yimid 14‑kii Febraayo 2022 — isla maalintii ay hooyada Michelle iyo Lavinia geeriyootay.

Magaca qoyska ee James kama muuqan garashada aabbannimo ee Michelle — sidaas darteed ma aha aabbaheed.

Ka dib toddobaadyo baaritaan ah, Michelle waxay ogaatay in aabbaheed uu yahay Alex, oo ahaa walaalka haweeney saaxiib la ahayd hooyadood. Michelle waxay la xiriirtay qaar ka mid ah qoyska Alex, kuwaas oo uga digay in uu sannado badan la tacaalay khamri‑cabid iyo daroogo, isla markaana uu ku noolaa waddooyinka.

Michelle iyo Lavinia waxay kulmeen haweeney la yiraahdo Olivine, oo Michelle aaminsaneyd inay tahay ina‑adeertood cusub. Michelle waxay isla markiiba dareentay xiriir dhow.

"Waxaan si toos ah u ogaaday inay dhiiggayga tahay," ayay tiri. Laakiin Lavinia sidaas ma aysan dareemin. Markii Olivine ay soo saartay sawirro qoyska ah, Lavinia iskuma arkin wajiyadooda.

Lavinia waxay go'aansatay inay iyaduna samayso tijaabo DNA ah. Ma aysan filayn inay hesho natiijo ka duwan tan Michelle, balse waxay rabtay inay wax ka qabato dareenkeeda sii kordhaya ee ah in qoyska Alex uusan ahayn keeda.

"Waxaan rabay oo keliya xaqiijin," ayay tiri.

Markii ay furtay natiijooyinkeeda oo ay aragtay runta layaabka leh ee ah in mataanteedu ay tahay walaasheed nus ah, Lavinia aad bay u niyad‑jabtay—waana xanaaqday.

"Waxaan uga xanaaqay Michelle inay igu qasabtay inaan tan maro, maxaa yeelay ma rabin xaqiiqadan," ayay tiri.

Waxaana jiray xaqiiqooyin kale oo soo baxay. Markii Lavinia si qoto dheer u eegtay natiijooyinkeeda, waxay aragtay in James uusan ahayn aabbaheed sidoo kale.

Lavinia dan kama aysan lahayn inay ogaato cidda aabbaheed ah, balse Michelle waxay ku adkaysatay inay hesho jawaabo. Iyadoo si taxaddar leh u baaraysay natiijooyinka mataanteeda, Michelle waxay heshay Arthur, oo ahaa aabbaha dhabta ah ee Lavinia. Labada mataano ayaa baabuur u raacay si ay ugula kulmaan Arthur gurigiisa oo ku yaalla Galbeedka London.

"Wuxuu ahaa qof yar oo xanaaq badan, laakiin dabeecad firfircoon ayuu lahaa – anigoo kale," ayay Lavinia tiri. Dhamaadka kulankooda, waxay Arthur ka dhunkatay dhabanka.

"Waxaan si dabiici ah u dareemay in aan sidaas sameeyo."

Tan iyo markaas, Lavinia iyo Arthur aad bay isugu dhowaadeen, iyagoo kulma dhowr jeer bishii, inta badan iyadoo Michelle ay la joogto.

"Waxaan dareemayaa inaan helay meel aan ka tirsanahay, meeshaasna waa aabbahay agtiisa," ayay Lavinia tiri. Arthur wuxuu sidoo kale u sheegay Michelle inay iyaduna ugu wici karto Aabbe.

Kulan dambe, mataanuhu waxay Arthur weydiiyeen waxa uu ka ogaa sida ay u calool-galeen.

"Wuxuu yiri, 'Hooyadiin ayaa albaabkayga timid. Aad bay u murugaysnayd. Way ooyaysay,'" ayay Michelle tiri. "Waxay u timid isaga sababtoo ah ma aysan dareemeyn ammaan, naxdinna way ka muuqatay."

Hooyada Michelle iyo Lavinia ma joogto si ay si sax ah noogu sheegto wixii dhacay, balse Arthur wuxuu sheegay inay isaga u timid xilli ay baahi weyn u qabtay.

Michelle waxay sidoo kale awoodday inay la kulanto aabbaheed dhabta ah, Alex, iyada oo kaashanaysa xubno qoys oo dhowaan ay ogaatay.

"Si cad ayuu u isticmaalayay daroogo," ayay Michelle tiri.

Isu‑ekaanshaha u dhexeeya Michelle iyo Alex wuxuu ahaa mid aan la dafiri karin.

"Isagu waa kayga, aniguna waxaan ahay isaga, balse ma dareemin inuu yahay qof aan doonayo inaan mustaqbalkeyga sidaas kula sii socdo," ayay tiri.

"Waxaan rabay oo keliya inaan ogaado xaqiiqda."

Mataanuhu weligood ma ogaan doonaan in hooyadood ay ka shakisanayd inay leeyihiin aabbeyaal kala duwan.

"Waxaa laga yaabaa inay ka yaabiyeen," ayay Lavinia tiri. "Waxaa laga yaabaa inay wax aragtay, waxna u dareentay si ka duwan."

"Waxaan u maleynayaa in hooyaday maskaxdeeda ay ogayd, balse si weyn ayay u diidday xaqiiqada," ayay Michelle tiri.

Iyagoo ah mataano aan isku ekeyn, Lavinia iyo Michelle mar walba way ka warqabeen kala duwanaanshahooda. Xaqiiqooyinka ay DNA‑goodu soo bandhigeen ayaa markii hore ka dhigay kala duwanaanshahaas mid aad u muuqda. Si kastaba ha ahaatee, weligood waxay wadaagi doonaan xiriir gaar ah.

"Annagu waxaan nahay mucjiso," ayay tiri Lavinia. "Mar walba waxaan yeelan doonnaa isu‑dhowaansho aan la burburin karin."

"Iyadu waa mataantayda," ayay Michelle tiri iyadoo madaxa ruxday. "Wax taas beddeli kara ma jiro."