Practices in JudaismBrit Milah and Marriage

For Jews, practising their faith involves worship and prayer at home and in the synagogue. Being part of a community, celebrating festivals and rites of passage together is important within Judaism.

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Brit Milah and Marriage

Brit Milah

is the ritual of and dates back to the covenant made between God and Abraham. The reminds Jews of this important sign of the covenant: Every male among you shall be circumcised. (Genesis 17:10)

The ritual is usually done at home seven or eight days after a boy’s birth. It is carried out by a , a person specifically trained to carry out circumcision. A blessing is said before the circumcision is carried out. The boy is given his name and the is said. There is then a celebratory meal.

Marriage

Betrothal

Betrothal, or , is usually a 12-month engagement period before a wedding. Traditionally, a ceremony would be held a year before the wedding to mark the betrothal.

In Judaism it is traditional for the couple not to see each other for a week before the wedding ceremony.

Wedding ceremony

A Jewish wedding can happen on any day other than or one of the Jewish festivals.

There are several stages to the wedding ceremony:

  1. The couple before the wedding to cleanse themselves of sin.
  2. A wedding ceremony happens underneath the . The chuppah symbolises the home that the bride and groom will share together. The groom gives the bride a ring. Alternatively, in Judaism, the bride and groom give rings to each other.
  3. Seven wedding blessings are recited, including praising God for his creation.
  4. The blesses the couple.
  5. The bride and groom sign the in front of witnesses.
  6. The bride and groom share a glass of wine. The groom then breaks the glass under his foot to show regret for the destruction of the and to symbolise the fact that life involves hardship as well as happiness.
  7. The people at the wedding wish the couple good luck.
  8. The bride and groom have a short time together in a private room.
  9. There is a wedding reception. Orthodox Jews also have separate receptions for men and women before the wedding.
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The chuppah used at weddings symbolise the home that the bride and groom will share together

Jewish marriage is not just legal partnership, but a union between two people that is blessed by God. In this way, marriage shows holiness in everyday life. It is the foundation upon which the family home is built and fulfils the commandment to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:22).

A spiritual bond is created through the merging of two souls.

Hence a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, so that they become one flesh.
Genesis 2:24

Question

Why can’t Jewish people get married on a Saturday?