Describing family and friends in French

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Key points about describing yourself and others in French

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  • Use être and avoir to describe physical characteristics and personality.

  • endings change depending on the and number of the they are describing.

  • Adjectives ending in particular letters have their own rules.

  • Other adjectival endings are .

  • This guide contains two videos as well as reading and listening practice.

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Video - Describing myself and others

Watch the video of Rachel describing herself and her family, as well as talking to other people about themselves.

Rachel and others describe themselves using adjectives and present tense verbs

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Vocabulary - Describing appearance

Describe physical appearance or personality using adjectives and either:

  • the verb être - to be

  • the verb avoir - to have

Describing appearance and personality using 'être' (to be)

To describe someone’s physical appearance or their personality, use the relevant part of the verb (to be):

FrenchEnglish
I am
you (singular informal) are
he/it is
she/it is
we are
you (plural/formal) are
they (masculine plural) are
they (feminine plural) are
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Use the verb 'être' to describe people

For example:

Je suis grand(e). – I’m tall.

Mon frère est très fort. – My brother is very strong.

Mes parents sont assez jeunes. – My parents are quite young.

Mon chat est gros. – My cat is big.

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Use the verb 'être' to describe people

Useful adjectives for describing people using the verb être include:

FrenchEnglish
petit(e)little, short (height)
grand(e)tall, big, large
beau/bel/bellebeautiful
gros/grossebig, large
jeuneyoung
vieux/vieilleold
fort(e)strong
faibleweak
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Describing hair and eyes using 'avoir' (to have)

To describe someone’s hair and eyes, use the relevant part of the verb (to have):

FrenchEnglish
I have
you (informal) have
he/it has
she/it has
we have
you (plural/formal) have
they (masculine plural) have
they (feminine plural) have
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Use the verb 'avoir' to describe eyes and hair

For example:

J’ai les yeux bleus. – I have blue eyes.

Ma grand-mère a les cheveux gris. – My grandma has grey hair.

J’ai un chien noir et blanc. – I have a black and white dog.

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Use the verb 'avoir' to describe eyes and hair
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Remember

In French, you also use the verb avoir to give people’s ages. For example:

J’ai quinze ans. - I’m fifteen years old.

Useful vocabulary for describing people using the verb avoir includes:

FrenchEnglishFrenchEnglish
les cheveuxhairblanc/blanchewhite
les yeuxeyesgris(e)grey
bleu(e)blueblond(e)blonde
vert(e)greenchâtain(e)brown
marronbrowncourt(e)short (hair)
noir(e)blacklong/longuelong
rouxred (hair)
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Using 'être' and 'avoir' - Mini quiz

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Complete the following sentences with the correct verb.

Je _____ grand.

I am tall.

Nous _____ forts.

We are strong.

Tu ___ les yeux verts ?

Do you have green eyes?

Elles ___ les cheveux longs.

They have long hair.

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Reading practice

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The verb 'être' is used to describe appearance and personality

Read the following blog post about family relationships and answer the questions below.

Ma mère, Jenny, a quarante ans et elle très petite. Elle a les yeux bleus et les cheveux châtains, comme moi. Mon beau-père, David, est plus âgé – il y a environ vingt ans entre eux. Il a les yeux marrons et les cheveux courts et noirs.

J’ai aussi deux frères jumeaux qui s’appellent Ted et Max. Ils ont treize ans. Ils sont plus jeunes que moi mais déjà plus grands ! Ils ont les yeux verts et les cheveux longs et roux.

Mon frère, Alex, est amusant et bavard et nous nous ressemblons. Il partage ma passion pour les activités sportives.

Chez nous, on adore les animaux et nous avons un chat, Whiskers, et un chien, Rocky. Whiskers est vieux et faible, tandis que Rocky est un chien jeune et fort – il aime jouer tout le temps.

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The verb 'être' is used to describe appearance and personality

Which three of these statements is correct?

AEmma’s mum has blond hair
BEmma’s looks like her mum
CEmma's step-dad is younger than her mum
DEmma’s brothers are twins
EShe is taller than her brothers
FEmma’s cat is older than her dog

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Useful vocabulary - Describing personality and other characteristics

Here are some useful adjectives to describe yourself and others. Remember to use the verb être with these adjectives:

FrenchEnglishFrenchEnglish
actif/activeactivepositif/positivepositive
agréablepleasant, nice, agreeableprudent(e)prudent, careful, cautious
amusant(e)funny, fun, amusingresponsableresponsible
calmecalmsportif/sportivesporty
ennuyeux/ennuyeuseboringstrict(e)strict
heureux/heureusehappysympathique/sympanice, kind, friendly
négatif/négativenegativetravailleur/travailleusehard-working
patient(e)patienttristesad
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Adjectives must agree with the noun they are describing

For example:

Je suis travailleur. – I am hard-working.

Mes amis sont amusants et sympa. – My friends are funny and nice.

Parfois, ma sœur est un peu négative. – Sometimes, my sister is a bit negative.

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Adjectives must agree with the noun they are describing
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Remember

Most adjectives agree with the noun but some including sympa (nice, kind, friendly) and marron (brown), never change. For example:

Ils sont sympa et ils ont les cheveux marron. - They are nice and they have brown hair.

All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Grammar - How to use adjectives

Adjectives describe a noun and all French adjectives agree with the noun in gender and number. Most adjectives come after the noun they describe.

The general rule is:

  • for feminine nouns, add e

  • for masculine plural nouns, add s

  • for feminine plural nouns, add es

For example:

Masculine singularFeminine singularMasculine pluralFeminine pluralEnglish
independent
green
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Some adjectives have irregular endings

For example:

J’ai les yeux verts. - I have green eyes.

Mes petits frères sont très indépendants. – My little brothers are very independent.

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Some adjectives have irregular endings

If an adjective already ends in e, you do not need to add another e when forming the feminine form.

For example:

Il est agréable. - He is nice.

Elle est agréable. - She is nice.

If an adjective already ends in s, you do not need to add another s in the plural forms.

For example:

Mon lapin est gris. - My rabbbit is grey.

Mes lapins sont gris. - My rabbits are grey.

There are different rules for adjectives ending in certain letters.

Click or tap on Show more to find out about forming the different forms of adjectives ending with the following letters:

  • x

  • el and en

  • al

  • f

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Irregular adjectives

Some adjectives are completely irregular, meaning they do not follow the rules when agreeing with feminine and plural nouns.

Useful irregular adjectives include:

Masculine singularFeminine singularMasculine pluralFeminine pluralEnglish
beautiful, handsome, nice (weather)
big, large, lots of
crazy
good
hardworking
long
new
old
white
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Using adjectives - Mini quiz

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Choose the correct adjective in each of the following sentences:

Mes cheveux sont [blond/blonds/blondes].

Mes sœurs sont [sportifs/sportive/sportives].

Ma mère est [travailleur/travailleuse/travailleuses].

Mon ami Lucas est très [beau/belle/beaux].

Find out more about adjective endings in the Gender and number agreement of adjectives in French guide.

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Listening practice

Listen to three people talking about what makes a good friend and answer the questions.

Click or tap on the purple START button when you are ready to begin the activity.

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Video - Describing people in French

Watch the video to understand more about using être and avoir when describing yourself and others.

Use the verbs 'être' and 'avoir' to describe yourself and others

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Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when describing yourself and others.

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Higher Tier - Vocabulary - Describing personality

Useful adjectives for describing yourself and others include:

FrenchEnglish
âgé(e)old
ainé(e)oldest
fidèleloyal, faithful
fier/fièreproud
sévèresevere, strict, harsh
stressé(e)stressed

All vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when describing yourself and others.

Now you have revised the topic of describing friends and family have a look at the Describing life at school guide.

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