Introducing myself and my family in French

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Key points about introducing yourself and your family in French

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  • Use to describe the relationship between family members.

  • Possessive adjectives agree with the of the thing owned, not the owner.

  • Subject pronouns take the place of a noun as the subject of a sentence and are useful when talking about what family members do.

  • This guide contains reading and listening practice.

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Vocabulary – Family members

Have a look at the illustration for useful nouns for family members.

Names of family members in French

Click or tap on Show more to hear pronunciations of the vocabulary in the illustration above.

Other useful nouns include:

FrenchEnglish
(m)only child
friend, boyfriend
friend, girlfriend
woman, wife
girl, daughter
son
husband

Useful adjectives to describe gender identity and sexual orientation include:

FrenchEnglish
bi(sexual)
gay
straight, heterosexual
lesbian
non-binary
queer
transgender
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Grammar – Possessive adjectives

Possessive adjectives show whom something or someone belongs to.

To express whom something belongs to (eg my, your, our), use a possessive adjective.

In French, the possessive adjective agrees with the gender of the thing owned, not the owner.

EnglishMasculineFemininePlural (masculine and feminine)
mymonmames
your (familiar singular)tontates
his/her/itssonsases
ournotrenotrenos
your (formal/plural)votrevotrevos
theirleurleurleurs
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Use possessive adjectives to describe how someone is related to you

For example

Nos grand-parents sont francophones. – Our grandparents are francophone (French-speaking).

Mon oncle est transgenre. – My uncle is transgender

Mon, ton and son are used instead of ma, ta and sa before a feminine word starting with a vowel or silent 'h'. This makes pronunciation easier.

For example:

Mon amie est fille unique. – My (female) friend is an only child.

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Use possessive adjectives to describe how someone is related to you

Using 'de' to indicate possession

In English, the possessive ‘s is used to express possession. In French, de is used.

For example:

C’est le mari de mon frère. - It’s my brother’s husband.

This translates literally as ‘It’s the husband of my brother’.

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Remember

When de is followed by le, the two words combine to make du.

When de is followed by les, the two words combine to make des.

For example:

Je ne sais pas l’âge du poisson rouge. – I don’t know the goldfish’s age.

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Mini quiz

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Translate the following sentences into French.

My family is French.

It’s my step-father’s dog.

His aunt is Canadian.

The girls’ parents speak English.

Find out more about possessive adjectives in the Possessive adjectives in French guide.

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Reading practice

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Alex writes about family life on a blog

Read Alex’s blog and answer the questions about them and their family.

Bonjour, je m’appelle Alex et j’ai seize ans. Je suis canadien et francophone mais je parle anglais aussi. Je suis handicapé et non-binaire. Tout cela fait partie de mon identité !

Ma famille est très importante pour moi. Je n’ai pas de frères ou sœurs mais j’ai douze cousins. J’aime être enfant unique.

Mes parents se sont séparés l’année dernière donc je partage la semaine entre l’appartement de mon père et la maison de ma mère.

Mon père habite seul mais ma mère va se marier avec son copain la semaine prochaine. Je vais garder mon nom de famille car je ne veux pas prendre le nom de mon nouveau beau-père.

Nous n’avons pas d’animaux en ce moment. Cependant, après le mariage, on va acheter un lapin. Ça va être trop cool !

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Alex writes about family life on a blog
  1. How old is Alex?

  1. Which language(s) does Alex speak?

Question 3

What does Alex say about their family members? Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AAlex is an only child.
BAlex has one brother.
CAlex has two brothers and one sister.
DAlex has two cousins.
EAlex has 10 cousins.
FAlex has 12 cousins.

Question 4

What does Alex say about their parents? Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AAlex’s parents are going to separate.
BAlex’s mum and dad are going to get married.
CAlex’s dad has a girlfriend.
DAlex’s dad is single.
EAlex is going to have a new step-parent.

Question 5

What does Alex say about pets? Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AAlex doesn’t have any pets.
BAlex loves animals.
CAlex has a little dog.
DAlex is going to buy a pet soon.
EAlex would like a cat.

Click or tap on Show more to read a translation.

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Vocabulary – Talking about yourself, family and friends

Useful verbs include:

FrenchEnglish
discuter (de + noun)to discuss, talk about, chat
s’entendre (avec) to get on (with)
se marier (avec)to get married (to)
parlerto speak, talk
partagerto share
passerto spend (time)
rencontrerto meet (up)
s'appelerto call, be named

All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Grammar - How to use subject pronouns

Subject pronouns take the place of a noun as the subject of a sentence – they tell us who or what is doing the action of the verb.

In English, the subject pronouns are I, you, he, she, it, we and they.

In French, there are nine subject pronouns:

FrenchEnglish
/ j’ (before a vowel or ‘h’)I
you (singular informal)
he/it (masculine nouns)
she/it (feminine nouns)
one/we
we
you (singular formal or plural)
they (masculine nouns)
they (feminine nouns)
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Remember

Tu and vous both mean ‘you’.

Use tu for one friend or family member.

Use vous for one person you don’t know or for a group of people.

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Subject pronouns - Mini quiz

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Complete the following sentences with the correct subject pronoun:

Moi et mes amis, _________ discutons de tout.

J’ai deux petits frères et une sœur. ____ comptent sur moi.

Question 3: Papa, est-ce que ___ voudrais rencontrer mon ami?

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Did you know?

The most commonly used gender-neutral pronouns in French are (they, singular) and (they, plural).

For example:

Iel aime rencontrer de nouveaux amis. – They (singular) like meeting new friends.

Iels mangent avec leurs parents. – They (plural) eat with their parents.

Find out more about subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in French guide.

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Listening practice

You hear some young people talking about their families and relationships. For each person, which aspect of their life is mentioned?

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Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

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Higher Tier – Vocabulary – Family and friends

Useful nouns include:

FrenchEnglish
l’enfant (m) uniqueonly child
la mamanmum, mummy
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Remember

To talk about being a twin, use the adjective jumeau/jumelle.

For example:

J’ai un frère jumeau. - I have a twin brother.

Mes sœurs sont jumelles. - My sisters are twins.

Useful verbs

FrenchEnglish
apprécierto appreciate, like
compter surto count on
encourager (à + infinitive)to encourage (+ verb)
exprimer, s’exprimerto express, to express oneself
garderto keep, take care of, look after
grandirto get bigger, get taller, grow
présenter, se présenterto present, to introduce yourself
respecterto respect
séparer; se séparerto separate, break up

All vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Grammar – Higher Tier – Negative subject pronouns

To use ‘nobody’ as the of a sentence, use personne ne followed by the third person singular (il / elle / on) form of the verb.

For example:

Personne ne partage ma chambre. – Nobody shares my bedroom.

To use ‘nothing’ as the subject of a sentence, use rien ne followed by the third person singular (il / elle / on) form of the verb.

For example:

Rien ne sépare notre groupe d’amis. – Nothing separates our group of friends.

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Negative subject pronouns – Mini quiz

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Complete the following sentences with the correct subject pronoun:

______________ n’exprime leurs émotions dans ma famille.

______________ n’est un problème pour mes parents.

Find out more about negative subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in French guide.

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Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

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