Ways of Jewish living - EdexcelRituals – marriage and mourning

Jewish identity relies largely on religious practices. Rituals mark the important stages in a Jews life, and Jews celebrate many festivals throughout the year to remember important events in Jewish history. Worship of God is central to the Jewish faith. Many Jews place great importance on prayer and on worship in the synagogue.

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Rituals – marriage and mourning

Much of Judaism is focused on marriage and family life. Therefore, the marriage ritual is central to Jewish life. Weddings usually take place in a and include lots of symbolism.

The wedding ceremony takes place under a or canopy. This represents the home that the couple will build together as husband and wife. An important feature of the ceremony is the , which is a marriage contract in which the groom makes promises to his new wife.

Finally, a glass is broken by being stepped on. Jews have various interpretations of the meaning of this. Some believe it symbolises the destruction of the in whereas others believe it shows that love needs to be protected.

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The chuppah used at weddings symbolise the home that the bride and groom will share together

Mourning rituals

Death in Judaism triggers a series of important rituals. As soon as a Jew hears of the death of a loved one, they make a tear in their clothing to show their grief. The funeral is then arranged as quickly as possible. During the time before the funeral, the body is usually not left alone.

There are then various stages of mourning. These are called , and .

Stages of mourning

ShivaAvelutYahrzeit
The first seven days of mourning after the burial. Close family mourn during this time and some Jews will not leave the house.If someone has lost a parent, they will mourn for a whole year. During this year they will not attend parties and will say a blessing called the Kaddish every day.Yahrzeit is the anniversary of a death. The night before, many Jews light a candle in remembrance of the dead. The candle is kept burning for 24 hours. The Kaddish is said on this day.
ShivaThe first seven days of mourning after the burial. Close family mourn during this time and some Jews will not leave the house.
AvelutIf someone has lost a parent, they will mourn for a whole year. During this year they will not attend parties and will say a blessing called the Kaddish every day.
YahrzeitYahrzeit is the anniversary of a death. The night before, many Jews light a candle in remembrance of the dead. The candle is kept burning for 24 hours. The Kaddish is said on this day.

Differences in practices

Orthodox Jews are usually very strict in their observance of these rituals, but Reform and choose which rituals to take part in. For example, for seven days after the death of a close relative, Orthodox Jews do not leave the house. Although some Reform and Liberal Jews do observe this ritual, it is more unusual among these groups.