Love Bombed Podcast
Vicky Pattison uncovers one the UK’s most prolific Lovebombers, Raymond McDonald.
Despite a court ban he is still on dating apps and talking to women. One of them is us.
Vicky Pattison investigates romance fraud, exploring extreme cases of love bombing, lies and psychological manipulation. Victims share their stories and experts discuss how we, as a society, can affect change.
Series 4. WifeHunter
Uncovering one the UK’s most prolific Lovebombers, Raymond McDonald. Despite a court ban he is still on dating apps and talking to women. One of them is us.
Previously on Love Bombed:
Series 3. Love Bombed Presents...Betrayed
Vicky Pattison explores double lives, mental trickery, manipulation and love.
Series 2. Who is Alex?
A story of survival after a woman nearly lost her money and sense of self to an online fraudster.
Series 1. Who is James Scott?
The incredible double life of a serial cheater and his true identity.
Have you been love bombed? Tell us your story at lovebombed@bbc.co.uk.
Credits: Series 4. WifeHunter
Presented by Vicky Pattison.
Writer and Producer: Jane Downs and Barney Rowntree.
Investigative reporter: Philippa Goymer.
Story Consultant: Barney Rowntree.
Sound designer: Kasel Kundola.
Online Producer: Rachael Smith.
Executive Producer: Dan Farthing (BBC Investigations NE & Cumbria).
Commissioning Editor: Alistair Miskin.
Lovebombed was made at BBC Radio Newcastle for BBC Sounds.
Visit bbc.co.uk/actionline for help and support on issues raised in this series.
Episodes to download
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3. The making of a conman—WifeHunter
Fri 13 Feb 2026
Vicky explores Ray McDonald’s past to discover why he has spent decades scamming people.
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2. Morning ‘til night—WifeHunter
Fri 13 Feb 2026
Vicky discovers Ray McDonald has been released from his latest sentence.
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1. Hit by a train—WifeHunter
Fri 13 Feb 2026
Caroline lost her home after matching with fraudster Raymond McDonald on a dating site.
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Introducing... WifeHunter—WifeHunter
Thu 12 Feb 2026
Vicky Pattison uncovers one the UK’s most disturbing and prolific Lovebombers.
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Bonus: Celebrity Scammers—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Mon 3 Feb 2025
Becky Holmes turns the tables on scammers who pretend to be celebrities.
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5. Michelle—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Fri 31 Jan 2025
Exploring whether Michelle's passionate love affair was really a romance fraud.
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4. Suzanne—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Fri 31 Jan 2025
A lockdown friendship sent Suzanne and her business into a spin.
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3. Rod—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Fri 31 Jan 2025
A betrayal by a friend dashes the retirement dream of former aid-worker Rod.
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2. Fionna—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Fri 31 Jan 2025
An online relationship with someone who seemed familiar threatened Fionna and her family.
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1. Priya—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Fri 31 Jan 2025
Priya thought he was the love of her life, so why did he want her family heirlooms?
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Introducing… Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed—Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed
Mon 27 Jan 2025
Vicky Pattison explores romance fraud, deception and mental manipulation.
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9. What's next for Sarah?—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Sarah shares why she wanted to tell her story.
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8. Fake tech—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Exploring how technology can mask someone’s identity.
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7. Talking to a ghost—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
A reformed Nigerian romance scammer shares his secrets.
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6. Policing romance fraud—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Exploring how Thames Valley Police investigate and support victims.
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5. At the police station—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Sarah suspects something isn't quite right when she asks Alex for proof of his identity.
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4. A Valentine’s Day to remember—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Sarah is going to the airport to meet Alex for the very first time.
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3. Late night online—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Alex and Sarah get more intimate sharing sexy images and talking into the early hours.
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2. Falling in love—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Sarah and Alex share lots in common, with promises made to build a life together.
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1. My dream man—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Sarah meets “Alex” online after a friend persuades her to sign up to dating website.
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Introducing Series 2: Who is Alex?—Series 2: Who is Alex?
Tue 13 Feb 2024
Vicky Pattison explores the story of a woman who was the target of an online fraudster.
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9. Why Did He Do It?—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
What was in it for the man who went by the name of 'James Scott'?
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8. The Reckoning—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
Vicky listens to the police tapes as Greg faces some tough questions.
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7. On The Run—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
Vicky explores how Durham Police tracked down Greg Wilson.
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6. Greg's Wife, Rachel—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
Rachel shares how Greg Wilson managed to lead a double life.
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5. The Unravelling—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
The truth finally catches up with James Scott, whose real name is Greg Wilson.
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4. An All New Low—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
James turns his attention to "helping" the family of a disabled child.
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3. A New Business—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
James has exciting plans to make Coleen and her sister Karen's business dreams come true.
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2. A Miracle Baby—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
Coleen is pregnant with James' baby following his "vasectomy" operation.
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1. Firefighting—Series 1: Who is James Scott?
Mon 13 Feb 2023
Coleen meets James Scott. His "job" provides the perfect cover for what's really going on.




