
Your Mother Should Know!
Vanessa asks today about the teenager/parent rows that you've been on both sides of, plus muggins is the latest Word Of The Day and Sian Nixon in Tottington near Bury is today's Jolly Good Fellow.
Last on
More episodes
Music Played
![]()
Stevie Wonder
Superstition
- Motown Chartbusters Volume 8 (Various Artists).
- Spectrum Music.
![]()
Eagle‐Eye Cherry
Save Tonight
- 1999 Grammy Nominees (Various Artists.
- Elektra.
![]()
The Beatles
Your Mother Should Know
- Magical Mystery Tour.
- Parlophone.
- 5.
![]()
Jamie Cullum
Everything You Didn't Do
- (CD Single).
- Island.
- 1.
![]()
SWV
Right Here (Human Nature Mix)
- Now 26 (Various Artists).
- Now.
![]()
Fine Young Cannibals
Suspicious Minds
- Drive Time 2 (Various Artists).
- Dino.
![]()
Bastille
Laura Palmer
- (CD Single).
- Virgin Records.
- 1.
Live 2Day track
![]()
Elaine Paige
Cry Me A River
Pause For Thought
![]()
John Farnham
You're The Voice
- Life In The Fast Lane (Various).
- Telstar.
- 2.
![]()
Bonnie Tyler
Believe In Me
![]()
Yes
Owner Of A Lonely Heart
- Top Gear 2 - Various Artists.
- Columbia.
![]()
Goo Goo Dolls
Rebel Beat
- Magnetic.
- Warner Bros.
- 1.
![]()
Dana
Something's Cooking In The Kitchen
- Epic.
Sian Nixon's birthday number 1
![]()
ABBA
Fernando
- Abba Gold (40th Anniversary Edition).
- Polar.
- 012.
![]()
Texas
The Conversation
- (CD Single).
- PIAS UK.
- 1.
Pause For Thought with Dave Tomlinson, writer and Vicar of St Luke’s Holloway in London

When I first set up a church in a pub in 1989, many church leaders rubbished the idea; some said the slogan ‘God & a pint’ was blasphemous. But within five years everyone was hailing it as a great idea, and invitations rolled in for me to talk about it. Churches, aren’t known for their progressive thinking.
But it’s not just churches: whenever someone jumps outside the box and comes up with a seemingly radical idea, there are always plenty of people shouting it down or saying why it can’t work. But many of yesterday’s bizarre ideas are today’s status quo.
Albert Einstein said that creativity is intelligence having fun. Perhaps that’s why we ‘play around’ with new ideas. Po-faced committees don’t generally come up with innovative plans, just safe repetitions of what has already been. Imagination requires playfulness: the willingness to think ‘what if…’
Playing around with ideas can’t always lead to success. But among dozens of nonsense thoughts, just one may turn out to be a stroke of genius.
Most of us are not great inventors or genius innovators, but life is all about having ideas that solve problems, create opportunities and make our existence more interesting. There are lots of voices (mostly within ourselves) that tell us to climb back into the box; lots of reasons to ‘be sensible’, to distrust our intuition.
Setting up ‘Holy Joes’, the church in a pub, turned out to be one of the best things I ever did – however stupid or ‘blasphemous’ it seemed to some people. And it wasn’t that innovative – Jesus hung out with ‘publicans and sinners’ long before me. The brilliant computer entrepreneur Steve Jobs said we shouldn’t be trapped by dogma, which is all about what other people think. Instead we should keep listening to our inner voice, and have the courage to trust our own intuition.
Word Of The Day

Muggins – a person who allows themself to be outwitted. Also a title used humorously to refer to oneself
Broadcast
- Wed 15 May 201305:00BBC Radio 2
