Talking about yourself and your relations in Spanish

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Key points about talking about yourself and your relations in Spanish

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  • Use to replace a noun when talking about talking about members of your family.

  • There are two ways of saying ‘you’ in Spanish depending on whether the situation is formal or informal.

  • show who things belong to and can be used to talk about how you are related to members of your family.

  • This guide contains listening and reading practice.

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Vocabulary – Talking about family members

Have a look at the illustration for useful nouns for family members:

Names of family members in Spanish

Click or tap on Show more to see a table of vocabulary to use when talking about family members.

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Grammar - How to use subject pronouns

Subject pronouns replace a which is the of the and are used to avoid repetition.

In English the subject pronouns are I, you, he, she, we, you and they.

The table shows the subject pronouns in Spanish.

SpanishEnglish
I
you (singular)
he
she
you (formal singular)
we (all male or mixed group)
we (all female)
you (plural - all male or mixed group)
you (plural - all female)
they (all male or mixed group)
they (all female)
you (formal plural)
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Use a subject pronoun to replace a noun, eg 'ella juega al fútbol' (she plays football)

For example:

Elena juega al fútbol (Elena plays football) becomes ella juega al fútbol (she plays football).

David va al colegio (David goes to school) becomes él va al colegio (he goes to school).

Carla y yo vamos al cine (Carla and I go to the cinema) becomes nosotros vamos al cine (we go to the cinema).

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Use a subject pronoun to replace a noun, eg 'ella juega al fútbol' (she plays football)
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Use the masculine forms of the subject pronouns when talking about a group of males and females

The masculine forms nosotros, vosotros and ellos are all used for a mixed group of males and females, even if there are more females than males in the group.

For example:

Marta y Jorge van a la ciudad (Marta and Jorge go to town) becomes ellos van a la ciudad (they go to town).

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Use the masculine forms of the subject pronouns when talking about a group of males and females
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Remember

Subject pronouns are not usually needed in Spanish. They are mostly used to emphasise exactly who does what.

For example:

Yo quiero ir al cine, pero él quiere ir a la bolera. - I want to go to the cinema but he wants to go bowling.

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Different ways of saying ‘you’ in Spanish

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Use 'usted' when talking to someone in a formal situation such as a job interview

There are two different ways of saying the word you in Spanish depending on the situation.

To talk to more than one person in an informal situation, for example friends and family, use and vosotros

To talk to more than one person in a formal situation, for example a job interview, talking to a head teacher or talking to someone you don’t know well, use usted to talk to one person and ustedes.

Find out more about the different ways of saying 'you' in Spanish in the Subject pronouns in Spanish guide.

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Use 'usted' when talking to someone in a formal situation such as a job interview
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Subject pronouns – Mini quiz

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Which is the correct way to replace the noun Elena in following sentence?

Elena vive en Bogotá.

Which is the correct way to replace the nouns Antonio y Jalil in the following sentence?

Antonio y Jalil son españoles.

Antonio and Jalil are both male.

Which is the correct way to replace the nouns Luisa y yo in the following sentence?

Luisa y yo tenemos quince años.

Which is the correct way to replace the nouns Carla, Mario y Pilar’ in the following sentence?

There are two females and one male.

Carla, Mario y Pilar son católicos.

Find out more about subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in Spanish guide.

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Listening practice

Listen to Andrea talking about her family and choose the correct option to complete the following sentences.

  1. Andrea gets on well with her …
Amother
Bsister
Caunt

  1. Andrea’s brother is …
Adifficult
Bkind
Chard-working

  1. Maria is a …
Apolice officer
Bteacher
Cnurse

  1. Andrea, María and her partner like …
Aplaying sports
Bwatching sport
Cshopping

Click Show more to see the audio transcript and translation.

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Vocabulary - Describing faith and nationality

Useful words to talk about religion include:

SpanishEnglish
budistaBudhist
cristiano/aChristian
católico/aCatholic
hindúHindu
judio/aJewish
musulmán/musulmanaMuslim
sijSikh

Useful words to use when describing nationality include:

SpanishEnglishSpanishEnglish
alemán, alemana Germanespañol, españolaSpanish
argentino/aArgentinianfrancés, francesa French
británico/aBritishgales, galesa Welsh
chino/aChineseinglés, inglesaEnglish
colombiano/aColumbianirlandés, irlandesaIrish
cubano/aCuban italiano/aItalian
escocés, escocesaScottishmexicano/aMexican
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Remember

Faiths and nationalities are not capitalised in Spanish. For example:

Yo soy argentina y judía. - I am Argentinian and Jewish.

Mi abuelo es italiano y católico. - My grandfather is Italian and Catholic.

All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Grammar – Possessive adjectives

Possessive adjectives show who something or someone belongs to.

The possessive adjectives in Spanish are:

singularplural
my
your (singular)
his/her/its/formal your (singular)
our / /
your (plural) / /
their/formal your (plural)

Possessive adjectives come before the noun and must in gender and number with the noun that follows them.

For example:

Mi mejor amiga Ana. – My best friend is Ana.

Mi hermano tiene el pelo corto. – My brother has short hair.

Mis primos viven en España. - My cousins live in Spain.

¿Cómo es tu hermana? – What’s your sister like?

¿Cómo son tus amigos? - What are your friends like?

Su hermano tiene nueve años. – His/her/their brother is nine.

Sus padres son musulmanes. – His/her parents are Muslim.

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Use possessive adjectives to talk about family members and friends, eg 'mi hermana' (my family)

Note that the only possessive adjectives that have a gender agreement and our and informal your.

For example:

Nuestra hermana es perezosa. - Our sister is lazy.

Vuestros perros son pequeños. - Your dogs are little.

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Possessive adjectives - Mini quiz

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Complete the following sentences:

_______________ (my) perro se llama Hugo.

_______________ (my) amigas son simpáticas.

_______________ (her) hermano está casado.

Complete the following sentence:

_____________ (your informal) padres son estrictos.

Find out more about possessive adjectives in Spanish in the Possessive adjectives guide.

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Reading practice

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Young people describe their identity

You read a magazine article about people and their identity. Read the information and answer the questions below.

Marcos

No soy religioso pero mis padres son católicos. Soy gay y vivo con mi novio, Emilio. Emilio es cubano.

Carmen

Soy mexicana y soy soltera. Mi madre es cubana y mi padre es colombiano. Todos hablamos español.

Omar

Soy español y soy musulmán. Mis padres vienen de Marruecos pero hemos vivido en España desde hace diez años.

Julia

Soy escocesa y soy cristiana. No tengo novio en este momento. Tengo un tío que vive en Escocia.

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Young people describe their identity
  1. Who is Spanish?

  1. Who has a boyfriend?

  1. Who has a Cuban parent?

  1. Who is a Christian?

  1. Who is a Muslim?

Click or tap on Show more to see a translation of the texts.

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Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

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Now you have revised the important vocabulary and key grammar points for talking about yourself, why not have a look at the Talking about family and friends in Spanish guide?

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