Key points about family traditions and celebrations in Spanish

Use the preterite (past) tense to talk about previous family celebrations and events.
This guide contains reading practice.
Vocabulary - Describing birthday celebrations
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | birthday |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | party, bank holiday, festival |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | freedom |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | music |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | present, gift |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | lively, cheerful, happy |

Remember
In Spanish the word for ‘birthday’ is a singular word, although it ends in s. It literally means cumple (achieves) and años (years).
To say ‘Happy birthday’ use Feliz Cumpleaños.
Useful verbs include:
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to celebrate |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to share |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to know, meet (for the first time) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to give |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to have a good/bad time |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to invite |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to cry |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to receive |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to dress, get dressed |

Useful adjectives include:
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| divertido/a | fun, enjoyable |
| especial | special |
Grammar – What is the preterite tense in Spanish
The preterite tense in Spanish is used to describe completed actions in the past.
For example:
Fui al cine para celebrar mi cumpleaños. - I went to the cinema to celebrate my birthday.
Celebramos en un restaurante. - We celebrated in a restaurant.
The preterite tense is used if the past action had a definite beginning and definite end and is often used with phrases that give a specific time frame.
For example:
Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - yesterday
Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - last night
Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - last year
Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - last week
Forming the preterite with regular verbs
Most verbWord used to describe an action, state of being or an occurrence. are regular in the preterite tense. This means that they follow a pattern.
For regular verbs, the preterite is formed by removing the ar, er, or ir, from the infinitiveForm of the verb that has not been conjugated. Usually translated with 'to' in English, eg to play. to form the stem and adding the following preterite endings:
| ar verbs: celebrar (to celebrate) | English | er / ir verbs: comer (to eat) | English |
|---|---|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | I celebrated | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | I ate |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you singular celebrated | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you singular ate |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | he/she celebrated | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | he/she ate |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | we celebrated | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | we ate |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you plural celebrated | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you plural ate |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | they celebrated | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | they ate |

For example:
Invité a mis mejores amigos. - I invited my best friends.
Recibió muchos regalos. - He/she received lots of presents.
Comimos un pastel de chocolate. - We ate a chocolate cake.

Forming the preterite with irregular verbs
Some of the most common verbs in Spanish are irregular. This means that they don’t follow the usual pattern in the preterite tense.
Some of the most useful irregular verbs in the preterite are:
ser - to be
ir - to go
hacer - to make, to do
tener - to have
Note that ser and ir are the same in the preterite tense.
Click or tap on Show more to see how to conjugate these key verbs in the preterite tense.
| ser / ir (to be/to go) | hacer (to make/do) | tener (to have) |
|---|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (I was/went) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (I made/did) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (I had) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (you singular were/went) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (you singular made/did) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (you singular had) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (he/she was/went) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (he/she made/did) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (he/she had) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (we were/went) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (we made/did) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (we had) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (you plural were/went) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (you plural made/did) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (you plural had) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (they were/went) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (they made/did) | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (they had) |
For example:
Fueron a un restaurante. – They went to a restaurant.
Mi padre hizo un pastel. – My father made a cake.
Tuve una fiesta. – I had a party.
The preterite tense – Mini quiz

Complete the following sentences.
______ mi cumpleaños con mis amigos.
I celebrated my birthday with my friends.
celebrar = to celebrate
Celebré mi cumpleaños con mis amigos.
Celebrar is a regular ar verb. In the ‘I’ form remove the ar ending and add é.
_______ pizza.
We ate pizza.
comer = to eat
Comimos pizza.
We ate pizza.
comer is a regular er verb and in the ‘we’ form you remove the er and add imos.
Mi amiga ______ una fiesta.
My friend had a party.
tener = to have
Mi amiga tuvo una fiesta. My friend had a party.
tener is an irregular verb and the ‘she’ form of the preterite tense is tuvo.
Mi cumpleaños ______ fantástico.
My birthday was fantastic.
ser = to be
Mi cumpleaños fue fantástico.
My birthday was fantastic. (ser = to be)
Ser is an irregular verb and the ‘it’ form of the preterite tense is fue.
To find out more about using and forming the preterite tense have a look at the Regular verbs in the preterite tense and Irregular verbs in the preterite tense in Spanish guides.
Vocabulary – Talking about marital status and partnership
Useful verbs to talk about marriage and partnership include:
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to get married |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to get divorced |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to be in love |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | to have children |
Useful nouns to talk about relationships include:
| Spanish | English | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | love | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | marriage/married couple |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | wedding | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | groom/boyfriend |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | wife | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | bride/girlfriend |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | husband | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | marital status |

For example:
En el futuro quisiera casarme y tener una familia muy grande. - In the future, I would like to get married and have a very big family.
Mi hermano mayor no está casado, pero creo que va a comprometerse con su novia el año que viene. - My older brother isn't married, but I think he is going to get engaged to his girlfriend next year.
Mi tía se casó el verano pasado y la boda costó mucho dinero. - My aunt got married last summer and the wedding cost a lot of money.
All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.


Did you know?
In Spain and Spanish-speaking countries, it's uncommon for people to change their name when they marry. Instead, they usually keep their mother and father's surnames.
Reading practice
Four Spanish teenagers are talking about a recent wedding. Read through each statement and answer the questions below.
Jorge
Lo pasé muy bien porque comí muchísimo. Bailé durante toda la noche y fue una fiesta estupenda.
David
Todo el mundo se puso muy guapo para asistir a la boda y se vistió muy elegante.
Elena
La boda de mis amigos fue un día emocionante y lloré muchísimo. Me encantó verlos tan felices.
Amira
La boda me dio la oportunidad de conocer a mucha gente. Además, el pastel de boda fue delicioso.
- Who mentions how people were dressed?
David
Translation:
Everyone dressed up really nicely for the wedding and wore elegant clothes.
- Who cried a lot?
Elena
Translation:
My friends' wedding was an emotional day and I cried a lot. I loved seeing them so happy.
- Who danced all night?
Jorge
Translation:
I had a great time because I ate a lot. I danced all night and it was a great party.
- Who made lots of new friends?
Amira
Translation:
The wedding gave me the opportunity to meet lots of people. What's more, the wedding cake was delicious.
Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about family traditions and celebrations.
Higher Tier - Vocabulary - Family celebrations
Useful vocabulary includes:
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| asistir | to attend |
| regalar | to give (as a gift) |
| enamorarse | to fall in love |
| separarse | to separate |
| la alegría | happiness |
| la pareja | couple/partner |
For example:
Mis abuelos están separados y no viven juntos. - My grandparents are separated and don't live together.
All vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about family traditions and celebrations.
Now you have learned the key vocabulary and grammar for describing family celebrations, have a look at the Talking about family and friends in Spanish guide.
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