Key points about describing family and friends

Use verbWord used to describe an action, state of being or an occurrence.ser (to be) and tener (to have) to describe physical characteristics and personality.
adjectiveUsed to describe nouns and must agree with the nouns they are describing. generally go after the nounThe name of a thing such as an object, a place or a person. Nouns are often described as naming words. in Spanish and agree with the noun they are describing.
Use comparative An adjective used to compare two things, eg better, taller, older. adjectives to compare two things.
Higher Tier - Use superlativeA word that describes the most of something, for example the biggest, the strongest, the fastest. adjectives to compare more than one thing.
Video - Talking about family and friends
Watch the video of Denia talking about her family and friends, as well as talking to other people about themselves.
Denia and others talk about themselves and others, using adjectives to describe appearance and personality
¡Hola, soy Denia! Soy profesora y vivo en Málaga. Muchos de mis amigos me describirían como una persona muy trabajadora y estoy completamente de acuerdo. Pero también creo que soy muy independiente.
Quiero enseñaros parte de mi familia y contaros un poco sobre ellos.
Él es Javier. Javier es mi único sobrino. Tiene cuatro años. Tiene los ojos azules, el pelo castaño y es muy delgado. Se parece mucho a su padre. Le encantan los animales y el campo.
Ella es María. María es mi madre. Nació en Granada pero se mudó a Málaga hace cuarenta años. Tiene sesenta años ahora. Es una mujer muy tranquila, optimista, divertida y creativa. Muchas personas dicen que nos parecemos en el carácter.
Ella es Adriana. Adriana es mi mejor amiga. Nos conocimos en el jardín de infancia y es una de mis personas favoritas. Tiene los ojos azules. Es más alta que yo. Es muy puntual. Abierta de mente, tranquila y deportista. Nos gusta la misma música.
¿De dónde eres?
Soy de Málaga. Vivo aquí en el centro.
¿Cómo describirías a tu amiga?
Mi amiga es alta. Mi amiga es muy guapa, y además es una chica muy lista.
¿Cómo es tu mujer?
Es rubia, alta, muy guapa, muy buena persona, y le gustan las mismas actividades que a mí.
¿Te gusta hacer actividades culturales o deportivas?
Me gusta el deporte, practico natación, surf, suelo ir a correr, tenis o fútbol.
¡Vaya! Es interesante saber cómo las personas se describen a sí mismas y a otras personas.
Translation
Hi I’m Denia! I am a teacher and I live in Malaga. Lots of my friends and family would describe me as a hardworking person and I completely agree. But I also think I am very independent.
I want to show you part of my family and tell you a little about them.
This is Javier. Javier is my only nephew. He is four years old. He has blue eyes, brown hair and is very slim. He looks a lot like his father. He loves animals and the countryside.
She is Maria. Maria is my mother. She was born in Granada but moved to Malaga forty years ago. She is sixty years old now. She is a very calm, optimistic, fun and creative woman. Many people say that we have a similar character.
This is Adriana. Adriana is my best friend. We met in kindergarten and she is one of my favourite people. She has blue eyes. She's taller than me. She is very punctual, open-minded, calm and sporty. We like the same music.
Where are you from?
I am from Malaga. I live here in the centre.
How would you describe your friend?
My friend is tall. My friend is pretty, and what’s more, she’s very smart.
what is your wife like?
She is blonde, tall, very pretty, a great person, and she likes to do the same activities as me.
Do you like doing cultural activities or sports?
I like sports, I go swimming, surfing, I often go running, play tennis or football.
There you go! It’s interesting to learn how people describe themselves and others.
Vocabulary - Describing physical appearance

Describe what you or someone else looks like using adjectives and either:
the verb ser - to be
the verb tener - to have
To ask someone what they look like, ask the question:
Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - What do you look like?

Describing appearance using 'ser' (to be)
To describe physical appearance, use the relevant part of the verbWord used to describe an action, state of being or an occurrence.ser (to be).
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | I am |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you (singular informal) are |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | he/she/it is, you (singular formal) are |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | we are |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you (plural informal) are |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | they/you (plural formal) are |
Here are some items of vocabulary that are useful when describing people using the verb ser:
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| alto/a | tall |
| bajo/a | short (height) |
| delgado/a | slim |
| gordo/a | fat |
| guapo/a | good-looking |
| feo/a | ugly |
Describing hair and eye colour using 'tener' (to have)
To describe someone’s hair and eyes, use the relevant part of the verb tener (to have).
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | I have |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you (singular informal) have |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | he/she/it has, you (singular formal) have |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | we have |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you (plural informal) have |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | they/you (plural formal) have |
To describe someone's hair and eyes use:
- Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - hair
- Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. - eyes
| Spanish | English | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|---|
| azul | blue | blanco/a | white |
| verde | green | gris | grey |
| marrón | brown | rubio | blonde |
| castaño | brown/chestnut | largo/a | long |
| negro/a | black | corto/a | short (hair) |
| pelirrojo | red (hair) |
Grammar - How to use adjectives
Use adjectives to describe hair, eyes, height and personality.
In Spanish, adjectives usually go after the noun.
For example:
Tiene el pelo (noun) negro (adjective). - He has black hair.
Tengo los ojos (noun) azules (adjective). - I have blue eyes.
In Spanish, adjectives must agreeIn Spanish, an adjective must agree with the noun or nouns they are describing, which means that they have to show if they are masculine or feminine and singular or plural to match the noun. with the noun.
For regularSomething that follows the usual or ‘regular’ pattern. adjectives, change the o to a when using it with a feminineIn Spanish, all nouns have a gender and are either masculine or feminine. noun, and add s for a pluralMore than one of an item. noun.
For example:
| Masculine | Feminine | English | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Singular | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | black |
| Plural | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | black |
Adjectives that end in a consonant, such as l, do not change between the masculineIn Spanish, all nouns have a gender, either masculine or feminine. and the feminine. Add es to the adjective when describing a pluralMore than one of an item. noun.
For example:
| Masculine | Feminine | English | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Singular | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | blue |
| Plural | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | blue |
When describing a physical feature such as hair and eyes, the adjective agrees with the feature, not the person.
For example:
Mi hermana tiene los ojos verdes. - My sister has green eyes.
The Spanish word for eyes, ojos, is masculine and plural, so verdes has a s on the end.

Remember
To describe the style, length and colour of someone’s hair, and therefore using more than one adjective, add the word y (and) between the last two adjectives.
For example:
Mi hermana tiene el pelo rubio y largo. - My sister has long, blond hair.
Tengo el pelo corto y negro. - I have short, black hair.
Tienen el pelo castaño y rizado. - They have brown (chestnut), curly hair.
Talking about family and friends - Mini quiz

Translate the following sentences into Spanish:
My sister has long hair.
Mi hermana ____ ____ _____ .
Mi hermana tiene el pelo largo.
Pelo means ‘hair’. The adjective follows the noun it describes and agrees with the noun in Spanish, so the endings of largo is o to agree with pelo.
I have short blond hair.
Tengo el ____ ____ ___ _____.
Tengo el pelo corto y rubio.
Pelo means ‘hair’.
The adjective follows the noun it describes and agrees with the noun in Spanish. The endings of corto and rubio are both o to agree with pelo.
When you have two adjectives in Spanish, you need to put y (and) between them.
He has brown eyes.
_____ _____ los ____ .
Tiene los ojos marrones.
Tiene means ‘he has’. The adjective marrones needs to follow the noun ojos.
Look at the Adjectives in Spanish guide to find out more about adjectival position and agreement in Spanish.
Listening practice
Listen to each of the clips of Antonio, Elena and Javier describing members of their family and answer the questions.
Antonio
Are the following statements true, false or not mentioned?
His mother has curly hair.
His mother has blue eyes.
His mother has brown hair.
Not mentioned. Although he says his mother has short, brown hair, he does not mention the style.
False. His mother says she would like blue eyes, but she actually has grey eyes.
True. Antonio says Mi madre tiene el pelo largo y castaño.
Elena
Why does Elena think her brother and sister don’t look like they are brother and sister?
Who does Elena say is the most good-looking?
Their hair is very different as her brother has curly black hair and her sister has blond hair. Elena says her brother has el pelo negro y rizado and her sister has el pelo rubio and tienen el pelo muy distinto.
Elena says her brother is the most good-looking - Pienso que mi hermano es el más guapo.
Javier
What is Javier’s grandad like? Choose the correct answer:
| A | fat |
| B | quite short |
| C | bald |
The correct answer is B.
Javier says that his grandad is delgado (slim) and therefore not fat, that he is bastante bajo (quite small) and he is not bald as he says he has el pelo blanco (white hair).
Click on the Show more button to read the transcript of what Antonio, Maria and Javier say and the translation.
Antonio
Mi madre tiene el pelo largo y castaño y lleva gafas. Tiene los ojos grises pero no le gustan. Dice que quisiera tener los ojos azules.
My mother has long brown hair and she wears glasses. She has grey eyes but she doesn’t like them. She says that she would like blue eyes.
Elena
Mi hermano tiene el pelo negro y rizado y mi hermana tiene el pelo rubio. ¡Es extraño porque tienen el pelo muy distinto! No parecen hermanos. ¡Pienso que mi hermano es el más guapo.
My brother has curly black hair and my sister has blond hair. It’s strange! They don’t look like brother and sister because they have very different hair. I think my brother is the most good-looking.
Javier
Mi abuelo es delgado y tiene el pelo blanco y una barba blanca. Tiene los ojos verdes y es bastante bajo.
My grandfather is slim and has white hair and a white beard. He has green eyes and is quite short.
Vocabulary - Describing character and personality
Use ser (to be) when describing character and personality.
Useful adjectives to describe people’s character and personality include:
| Spanish | English | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|---|
| alegre | cheerful | independiente | independent |
| activo/a | active | juntos/as | together |
| agradable | nice, pleasant | nervioso/a | nervous, uptight |
| contento/a | happy, content | responsable | responsible |
| divertido/a | fun, amusement | serio/a | serious |
| enfadado/a | angry | simpático/a | nice |
| estricto/a | strict | seguro/a de sí mismo | self-confident |
| feliz | happy | trabajador/ora | hard-working |
| fuerte | strong | tranquilo/a | calm, quiet, relaxed |
| igual | the same, equal |
All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Grammar - How to form and use comparative adjectives
To form comparative An adjective used to compare two things, eg better, taller, older. adjective and say that something is ‘more than’ something else, use más plus the adjective followed by que.
For example:
Luis es más trabajador que Emilio. - Luis is more hard-working than Emilio.
To say that something is ‘less than’ something else use menos + the adjective + que.
For example:
Ana es menos ordenada que Carmen. - Ana is less tidy than Carmen. is less tidy than Carmen’
Common irregular comparatives are:
mejor que – better than
peor que – worse than
For example:
Jorge sabe cocinar mucho mejor que yo. – Jorge knows how to cook much better than me.
Comparative and superlative adjectives - Mini quiz

Complete the gaps in the following sentences:
Es ____ _______ ____ su hermano.
She is more independent than her brother.
Es más independiente que su hermano.
Más’ followed by an adjective and que means ‘more … than’.
Hugo es ____ _____ ____ Daniel.
Hugo is less funny than Daniel.
Hugo es menos divertido que Daniel.
Menos followed by an adjective and que means ‘less … than’. The adjective divertido needs to agree with Hugo and have a masculine ending.
Find out more about in the Comparative and superlative adjectives guide.
Reading practice
Read this article from a magazine.
Un estudio reciente revela que existen cuatro tipos de personalidades, pero la mayoría de las personas tiene diferentes tipos de carácter:
Tipo A: Estas personas se caracterizan por tener un tipo de comportamiento tranquilo: nunca se ponen enfadadas y a veces son tímidas. No les gusta mostrar sus emociones y prefieren evitar ser el centro de atención.
Tipo B: Estas personas son muy extrovertidas. Parecen estar completamente seguras de sí mismas y siempre tienen muchos amigos. Son personas muy activas y les encantan las fiestas.
Tipo C: Las personas que tienen este tipo de personalidad son independientes. Son personas ambiciosas y positivas y les gusta inspirar y organizar a la gente. Sin embargo, se ponen enfadados a menudo.
Tipo D: Este tipo de persona es muy artística y creativa. Tiene muchas ideas originales y es muy imaginativa, pero encuentra difícil organizarse.
Choose the correct personality type (A, B, C or D) for each statement.
They are very sociable.
They never get angry.
They make good leaders.
They are extremely self-confident.
They might be untidy.
They can be shy.
B - The text says tienen muchos amigos (they have lots of friends) and les encantan las fiestas (they love parties).
A - Be careful as C also mentions anger: se ponen enfadados a menudo (they become angry often) whereas the correct answer is from A: nunca se se ponen enfadadas (they never become angry).
C - The text says that these people are positive and like inspiring and organising other people.
B - These people are extrovertidas (outgoing) and seguras de sí mismas (self-assured).
D - The article says lo encuentra difícil organizarse (finds it difficult to get organised).
A - The text says a veces son tímidas (sometimes they are shy).
Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when describing yourself or others.
Higher Tier - Vocabulary - Adjectives
Useful Higher Tier adjectives for describing character and personality include:
| Spanish | English |
|---|---|
| dulce | sweet |
| fiel | loyal, faithful |
| listo/a | smart, ready |
| optimista | optimistic |
| orgulloso/a | proud |
All Foundation and Higher Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Higher Tier - Grammar - How to form and use superlative adjectives
To form superlative adjectives to say that something is ‘the most’, use el/la/los/las followed by más and the adjective.
To say that something is ‘the least’, use el/la/los/las followed by menos and the adjective.
El/la/los/las mean ‘the’ and change according to whether the noun is masculine or feminine and singular or plural.
Common irregular superlatives include:
el/la mejor, los/las mejores - the best
el/la peor, los/las peores - the worst
For example:
Es el mejor profesor del colegio. - He’s the best teacher in the school.
Higher Tier - Superlatives - Mini quiz

Complete the following sentences.
Es mi ______ amiga.
She is my best friend.
Es mi mejor amiga.
The superlative mejor means ‘best’ and does not change ending according to whether it is masculine or feminine.
Son ____ ________ calidades.
They are the worst qualities.
Son las peores calidades.
The noun calidades is feminine and plural and you need las meaning ‘the’ and peores meaning ‘worst’. To make peor plural, add es to the end.
Look at the Comparatives and superlatives adjectives guide to find out more about superlatives in Spanish.
Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when describing yourself or others.
Now you have revised the important vocabulary and key grammar points for describing family and friends why not have a look at the Talking about life at school in Spanish?
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