Key points about describing yourself and your family in French

Use possessive adjectiveAdjectives that show ownership, eg my, your, his, our. They are placed before a noun, eg my book, your jacket. to describe the relationship between family members.
Possessive adjectives agree with the genderAll French nouns are either masculine or feminine. In French, objects such as a table or car, as well as people, have a grammatical gender. of the thing owned, not the owner.
Subject pronouns take the place of a noun as the subject of a sentence and are useful when talking about what family members do.
Vocabulary – Talking about family members and their characteristics
Have a look at the illustration for useful nouns for family members.
Press or tap on Show more to hear pronunciations of the vocabulary in the illustration above.
Useful nouns for family members include:
| French | English | French | English |
|---|---|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | mum | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | grandmother |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | dad | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | grandfather |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | stepmum | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | aunt |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | stepdad | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again.(m) | uncle |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | brother | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | niece |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | sister | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | nephew |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | stepbrother | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | cousin (male) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | stepsister | Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | cousin (female) |
Other useful nouns include:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (m) | child |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | son |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | girl, daughter |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | husband |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | woman, wife |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | friend, boyfriend |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | friend, girlfriend |
Describing nationality and language
Useful adjectives for describing nationalities and languages include:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| allemand(e) | German |
| anglais(e) | English |
| britannique | British |
| canadien(ne) | Canadian |
| espagnol(e) | Spanish |
| français(e) | French |
Describing faith
Useful adjectives for describing faith:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| bouddhiste | Buddhist |
| chrétien(ne) | Christian |
| hindou(e) | Hindu |
| juif/juive | Jewish |
| musulman(e) | Muslim |
| sikh | Sikh |

Remember
In French, there is no need to use a capital letter for adjectives when giving someone’s nationality, language or faith.
For example:
Mes parents sont québécois et catholique. Ils parlent anglais et français.
My parents are from Quebec and are Catholic. They speak English and French.
Gender identity and relationship status
Useful adjectives for describing gender identity and relationship status include:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| bi(sexuel) / bi(sexuelle) | bi(sexual) |
| célibataire | single, unmarried |
| gay | gay |
| hétéro | straight, heterosexual |
| marié(e) | married |
| non-binaire | non-binary |
| queer | queer |
| transgenre | transgender |
Grammar – Possessive adjectives
Possessive adjectives show whom something or someone belongs to.
To express whom something belongs to (eg my, your, our), use a possessive adjective.
In French, the possessive adjective agrees with the gender of the thing owned, not the owner.
| English | Masculine | Feminine | Plural (masculine and feminine) |
|---|---|---|---|
| my | mon | ma | mes |
| your (familiar singular) | ton | ta | tes |
| his/her/its | son | sa | ses |
| our | notre | notre | nos |
| your (formal/plural) | votre | votre | vos |
| their | leur | leur | leurs |

For example:
Nos cousins sont bouddhistes. – Our cousins are Buddhist.
Mon oncle est célibataire et habite avec sa fille. – My uncle is single and lives with his daughter.
Leurs copains sont marocains et francophones. – Their friends are Morrocan and French-speaking.

Mon, ton and son are used instead of ma, ta and sa before a feminine word starting with a vowel or silent 'h'. This makes pronunciation easier.
For example:
Mon amie est suisse. – My (female) friend is Swiss.
Using 'de' to indicate possession
In English, the possessive ‘s is used to express possession. In French, de is used.
For example:
C’est le mari de mon frère. - It’s my brother’s husband.
This translates literally as ‘It’s the husband of my brother’.

Remember
When de is followed by le, the two words combine to make du.
When de is followed by les, the two words combine to make des.
For example:
Je ne sais pas l’âge du poisson rouge. – I don’t know the goldfish’s age.
Showing possession – Mini quiz

Translate the following sentences intro French:
My family is Muslim.
Ma famille est musulmane.
Famille is a singular, feminine noun in French so the correct possessive adjective is ma.
Remember to add an e to the end of the adjective to make it agree with the word famille.
It’s my step-father’s dog.
C’est le chien de mon beau-père.
There is no apostrophe or s used to express possession in French.
This sentence translates literally as ‘It’s the dog of my step-father’.
His aunt is transgender.
Sa tante est transgenre.
The possessive adjective agrees with the feminine, singular noun tante so ‘his’ translates as sa here.
The girls’ parents are Spanish.
Les parents des filles sont espagnols.
When de is followed by les, the two words combine to form des.
Remember to add a s to the end of the adjective to make it agree with the masculine, plural noun, parents.
Find out more about possessive adjectives in the Possessive adjectives in French guide.
Reading practice

Read Alex’s blog and answer the questions about themself and their family.
Bonjour, je m’appelle Alex et j’ai seize ans. Je suis québecois et francophone mais je parle anglais et un peu de chinois aussi. Je suis juif et non-binaire. Tout cela fait partie de mon identité !
Ma famille est très importante pour moi. Je n’ai pas de frères ou sœurs mais j’ai douze cousins. J’aime être enfant unique.
Mes parents se sont séparés l’année dernière donc je partage la semaine entre l’appartement de mon père et la maison de ma mère.
Mon père est célibataire mais ma mère va se marier avec son copain la semaine prochaine. Je vais garder mon nom de famille car je ne veux pas prendre le nom de mon nouveau beau-père.
Nous n’avons pas d’animaux en ce moment. Cependant, après le mariage, on va acheter un petit chien. Ça va être trop cool !

Question 1
How old is Alex?
Choose the one correct option from the table below.
| A | 12 |
| B | 13 |
| C | 14 |
| D | 15 |
| E | 16 |
The answer is E
The text says: … j’ai seize ans. - … I am 16.
Question 2
What languages does Alex speak?
Choose all the correct options from the table below.
| A | English |
| B | French |
| C | Spanish |
| D | German |
| E | Chinese |
| F | Arabic |
The answers are A, B and E
The text says: Je suis québecois et francophone mais je parle anglais et un peu de chinois aussi.
I am from Québec and French-speaking but I speak English and a bit of Chinese as well.
Question 3
What does Alex say about their family members? Choose all the correct options from the table below.
| A | Alex is an only child. |
| B | Alex has one brother. |
| C | Alex has two brothers and one sister. |
| D | Alex has two cousins. |
| E | Alex has 10 cousins. |
| F | Alex has 12 cousins. |
The answers are A and F
The text says: Je n’ai pas de frères ou sœurs mais j’ai douze cousins. J’aime être enfant unique.
I don’t have any brothers or sisters but I have 12 cousins. I like being an only child.
Question 4
What does Alex say about their parents? Choose all the correct options from the table below.
| A | Alex’s parents are going to separate. |
| B | Alex’s mum and dad are going to get married. |
| C | Alex’s dad has a girlfriend. |
| D | Alex’s dad is single. |
| E | Alex is going to have a new step-parent. |
The answers are D and E
The text says: Mon père est célibataire mais ma mère va se marier avec son copain la semaine prochaine. Je vais garder mon nom de famille car je ne veux pas prendre le nom de mon nouveau beau-père.
My dad is single but my mum is going to get married to her boyfriend next week. I’m going to keep my surname because I don’t want to take the name of my new step-father.
Question 5
What does Alex say about pets? Choose all the correct options from the table below.
| A | Alex doesn’t have any pets. |
| B | Alex loves animals. |
| C | Alex has a little dog. |
| D | Alex is going to buy a pet soon. |
| E | Alex would like a cat. |
The answers are A and D
The text says: Nous n’avons pas d’animaux en ce moment … après le mariage, on va acheter un petit chien.
We don’t have any pets at the moment … after the wedding, we are going to buy a little dog.
Click or tap on Show more to read a translation of what Alex says.
Hello, my name's Alex and I am 16. I am from Québec and French-speaking but I speak English and a bit of Chinese as well. I am Jewish and non-binary. All of that is part of my identity.
My family is very important to me. I don’t have any brothers or sisters but I have 12 cousins. I like being an only child
My parents separated last year therefore I spend the week between my dad's flat and my mum's house.
My dad is single but my mum is going to get married to her boyfriend next week. I’m going to keep my surname because I don’t want to take the name of my new step-father.
We don’t have any pets at the moment. However after the wedding, we are going to buy a little dog. It's going to be so cool.
Useful verbs for talking about yourself, family and friends
Useful verbA word used to describe an action or state of being. for talking about yourself, your family and your friends include:
| French | English | French | English |
|---|---|---|---|
| compter | to count | partager | to share |
| discuter (de + noun) | to discuss, talk about | passer | to spend time with |
| encourager (à + infinitive) | to encourage (+ verb) | rencontrer | to meet, run into |
| exprimer | to express | s'appeler | to be named |
| marier, se marier (avec) | to marry, get married (to) | séparer, se séparer | to separate, break up |
| parler | to speak, to talk | supporter | to tolerate, bear, put up with |

All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Grammar - How to use subject pronouns
Subject pronouns take the place of a noun as the subject of a sentence – they tell us who or what is doing the action of the verb.
In English, the subject pronouns are I, you, he, she, it, we and they.
In French, there are nine subject pronouns:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. / j’ (before a vowel or ‘h’) | I |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you (singular informal) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | he/it (masculine nouns) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | she/it (feminine nouns) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | one/we |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | we |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | you (singular formal or plural) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | they (masculine nouns) |
| Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. | they (feminine nouns) |

Remember
Tu and vous both mean ‘you’.
Use tu for one friend or family member.
Use vous for one person you don’t know or for a group of people.
Subject pronouns - Mini quiz

Complete the following sentences with the correct subject pronoun:
Moi et mes amis, _________ discutons de tout.
Moi et mes amis, nous discutons de tout.
My and my friends, we talk about everything.
‘We’ is the pronoun used to represent ‘me and my friends’.
Nous is the correct pronoun for the present tense form of the verb ending in ons.
J’ai deux petits frères et une sœur. ____ comptent sur moi.
J’ai deux petits frères et une sœur. Ils comptent sur moi.
They count on me.
Use ils to refer to a mixed group of people, eg brothers and sisters.

Did you know?
The most commonly used gender-neutral pronouns in French are Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (they, singular) and Sorry, something went wrongCheck your connection, refresh the page and try again. (they, plural).
For example:
Iel aime rencontrer de nouveaux amis. – They (singular) like meeting new friends.
Iels mangent avec leurs parents. – They (plural) eat with their parents.
Find out more about subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in French guide.
Listening practice
You hear some young people talking about their families and relationships. For each person, which aspect of their life is mentioned?
Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.
Higher Tier – Vocabulary – Describing identity
Useful nouns for talking about family include:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| l’enfant (m) unique | only child |
| la maman | mum, mummy |
Useful vocabulary to describe nationality, language and faith include:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| africain(e) | African |
| arabe | Arabic, Arab |
| belge | Belgian |
| chinois(e) | Chinese |
| francophone | French-speaking |
| marocain(e) | Moroccan |
| québécois(e) | from Quebec |
| suisse | Swiss |
| catholique | Catholic |
Useful verbs to describe relationships include:
| French | English |
|---|---|
| apprécier | to appreciate, like |
| garder | to keep, take care of, look after |
| grandir | to get bigger, get taller, grow |
| présenter | to introduce someone to |
| respecter | to respect |
All Higher Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.
Grammar – Higher Tier – Negative subject pronouns
To use ‘nobody’ as the subjectThe person or thing in the sentence that is doing the action. of a sentence, use personne ne followed by the third person singular (il / elle / on) form of the verb.
For example:
Personne ne partage ma chambre. – Nobody shares my bedroom.
To use ‘nothing’ as the subject of a sentence, use rien ne followed by the third person singular (il / elle / on) form of the verb.
For example:
Rien ne sépare notre groupe d’amis. – Nothing separates our group of friends.
Negative subject pronouns – Mini quiz

Complete the following sentences with the correct subject pronoun:
______________ n’exprime leurs émotions dans ma famille.
Personne n’exprime leurs émotions dans ma famille.
Nobody expresses their emotions in my family.
Personne can be used at the start of a sentence in front of ne to mean nobody.
______________ n’est un problème pour mes parents.
Rien n’est un problème pour mes parents.
Nothing is a problem for my parents.
Rien can be used at the start of a sentence in front of ne to mean nothing.
Find out more about negative subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in French guide.
Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet
Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.
Now you have learned about talking about yourself why not look at the Describing relationships guide.
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