Talking about you and your family in French

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Key points about describing yourself and your family in French

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  • Use to describe the relationship between family members.

  • Possessive adjectives agree with the of the thing owned, not the owner.

  • Subject pronouns take the place of a noun as the subject of a sentence and are useful when talking about what family members do.

  • This guide contains reading and listening practice.

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Vocabulary – Talking about family members and their characteristics

Have a look at the illustration for useful nouns for family members.

Names of family members in French

Press or tap on Show more to hear pronunciations of the vocabulary in the illustration above.

Other useful nouns include:

FrenchEnglish
(m)child
son
girl, daughter
husband
woman, wife
friend, boyfriend
friend, girlfriend

Describing nationality and language

Useful adjectives for describing nationalities and languages include:

FrenchEnglish
allemand(e)German
anglais(e)English
britanniqueBritish
canadien(ne)Canadian
espagnol(e)Spanish
français(e)French

Describing faith

Useful adjectives for describing faith:

FrenchEnglish
bouddhisteBuddhist
chrétien(ne)Christian
hindou(e)Hindu
juif/juiveJewish
musulman(e)Muslim
sikhSikh
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Remember

In French, there is no need to use a capital letter for adjectives when giving someone’s nationality, language or faith.

For example:

Mes parents sont québécois et catholique. Ils parlent anglais et français.

My parents are from Quebec and are Catholic. They speak English and French.

Gender identity and relationship status

Useful adjectives for describing gender identity and relationship status include:

FrenchEnglish
bi(sexuel) / bi(sexuelle)bi(sexual)
célibatairesingle, unmarried
gaygay
hétérostraight, heterosexual
marié(e)married
non-binairenon-binary
queerqueer
transgenretransgender
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Grammar – Possessive adjectives

Possessive adjectives show whom something or someone belongs to.

To express whom something belongs to (eg my, your, our), use a possessive adjective.

In French, the possessive adjective agrees with the gender of the thing owned, not the owner.

EnglishMasculineFemininePlural (masculine and feminine)
mymonmames
your (familiar singular)tontates
his/her/itssonsases
ournotrenotrenos
your (formal/plural)votrevotrevos
theirleurleurleurs
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Use possessive adjectives to describe how someone is related to you

For example:

Nos cousins sont bouddhistes. – Our cousins are Buddhist.

Mon oncle est célibataire et habite avec sa fille. – My uncle is single and lives with his daughter.

Leurs copains sont marocains et francophones. – Their friends are Morrocan and French-speaking.

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Use possessive adjectives to describe how someone is related to you

Mon, ton and son are used instead of ma, ta and sa before a feminine word starting with a vowel or silent 'h'. This makes pronunciation easier.

For example:

Mon amie est suisse. – My (female) friend is Swiss.

Using 'de' to indicate possession

In English, the possessive ‘s is used to express possession. In French, de is used.

For example:

C’est le mari de mon frère. - It’s my brother’s husband.

This translates literally as ‘It’s the husband of my brother’.

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Remember

When de is followed by le, the two words combine to make du.

When de is followed by les, the two words combine to make des.

For example:

Je ne sais pas l’âge du poisson rouge. – I don’t know the goldfish’s age.

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Showing possession – Mini quiz

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Translate the following sentences intro French:

My family is Muslim.

It’s my step-father’s dog.

His aunt is transgender.

The girls’ parents are Spanish.

Find out more about possessive adjectives in the Possessive adjectives in French guide.

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Reading practice

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Alex writes about family life on a blog

Read Alex’s blog and answer the questions about themself and their family.

Bonjour, je m’appelle Alex et j’ai seize ans. Je suis québecois et francophone mais je parle anglais et un peu de chinois aussi. Je suis juif et non-binaire. Tout cela fait partie de mon identité !

Ma famille est très importante pour moi. Je n’ai pas de frères ou sœurs mais j’ai douze cousins. J’aime être enfant unique.

Mes parents se sont séparés l’année dernière donc je partage la semaine entre l’appartement de mon père et la maison de ma mère.

Mon père est célibataire mais ma mère va se marier avec son copain la semaine prochaine. Je vais garder mon nom de famille car je ne veux pas prendre le nom de mon nouveau beau-père.

Nous n’avons pas d’animaux en ce moment. Cependant, après le mariage, on va acheter un petit chien. Ça va être trop cool !

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Alex writes about family life on a blog

Question 1

How old is Alex?

Choose the one correct option from the table below.

A12
B13
C14
D15
E16

Question 2

What languages does Alex speak?

Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AEnglish
BFrench
CSpanish
DGerman
EChinese
FArabic

Question 3

What does Alex say about their family members? Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AAlex is an only child.
BAlex has one brother.
CAlex has two brothers and one sister.
DAlex has two cousins.
EAlex has 10 cousins.
FAlex has 12 cousins.

Question 4

What does Alex say about their parents? Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AAlex’s parents are going to separate.
BAlex’s mum and dad are going to get married.
CAlex’s dad has a girlfriend.
DAlex’s dad is single.
EAlex is going to have a new step-parent.

Question 5

What does Alex say about pets? Choose all the correct options from the table below.

AAlex doesn’t have any pets.
BAlex loves animals.
CAlex has a little dog.
DAlex is going to buy a pet soon.
EAlex would like a cat.

Click or tap on Show more to read a translation of what Alex says.

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Useful verbs for talking about yourself, family and friends

Useful for talking about yourself, your family and your friends include:

FrenchEnglishFrenchEnglish
compterto count partager to share
discuter (de + noun)to discuss, talk aboutpasserto spend time with
encourager (à + infinitive)to encourage (+ verb)rencontrerto meet, run into
exprimerto expresss'appelerto be named
marier, se marier (avec)to marry, get married (to)séparer, se séparerto separate, break up
parlerto speak, to talksupporterto tolerate, bear, put up with
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The verbs 'partager' (to share) and 'parler' (to talk) can be used when talking about relationships

All Foundation Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Grammar - How to use subject pronouns

Subject pronouns take the place of a noun as the subject of a sentence – they tell us who or what is doing the action of the verb.

In English, the subject pronouns are I, you, he, she, it, we and they.

In French, there are nine subject pronouns:

FrenchEnglish
/ j’ (before a vowel or ‘h’)I
you (singular informal)
he/it (masculine nouns)
she/it (feminine nouns)
one/we
we
you (singular formal or plural)
they (masculine nouns)
they (feminine nouns)
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Remember

Tu and vous both mean ‘you’.

Use tu for one friend or family member.

Use vous for one person you don’t know or for a group of people.

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Subject pronouns - Mini quiz

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Complete the following sentences with the correct subject pronoun:

Moi et mes amis, _________ discutons de tout.

J’ai deux petits frères et une sœur. ____ comptent sur moi.

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Did you know?

The most commonly used gender-neutral pronouns in French are (they, singular) and (they, plural).

For example:

Iel aime rencontrer de nouveaux amis. – They (singular) like meeting new friends.

Iels mangent avec leurs parents. – They (plural) eat with their parents.

Find out more about subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in French guide.

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Listening practice

You hear some young people talking about their families and relationships. For each person, which aspect of their life is mentioned?

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Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

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Higher Tier – Vocabulary – Describing identity

Useful nouns for talking about family include:

FrenchEnglish
l’enfant (m) uniqueonly child
la mamanmum, mummy

Useful vocabulary to describe nationality, language and faith include:

FrenchEnglish
africain(e)African
arabeArabic, Arab
belgeBelgian
chinois(e)Chinese
francophoneFrench-speaking
marocain(e)Moroccan
québécois(e)from Quebec
suisseSwiss
catholiqueCatholic

Useful verbs to describe relationships include:

FrenchEnglish
apprécierto appreciate, like
garderto keep, take care of, look after
grandirto get bigger, get taller, grow
présenterto introduce someone to
respecterto respect

All Higher Tier vocabulary listed in this guide can be found on the vocabulary sheet below.

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Grammar – Higher Tier – Negative subject pronouns

To use ‘nobody’ as the of a sentence, use personne ne followed by the third person singular (il / elle / on) form of the verb.

For example:

Personne ne partage ma chambre. – Nobody shares my bedroom.

To use ‘nothing’ as the subject of a sentence, use rien ne followed by the third person singular (il / elle / on) form of the verb.

For example:

Rien ne sépare notre groupe d’amis. – Nothing separates our group of friends.

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Negative subject pronouns – Mini quiz

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Complete the following sentences with the correct subject pronoun:

______________ n’exprime leurs émotions dans ma famille.

______________ n’est un problème pour mes parents.

Find out more about negative subject pronouns in the Subject pronouns in French guide.

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Higher Tier - Vocabulary sheet

Click or tap on the image below for a list of useful Higher Tier vocabulary to use when talking about yourself and others.

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Now you have learned about talking about yourself why not look at the Describing relationships guide.

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