This is a picture of their wedding day in 1992. "We were all nervous and happy," says Defannie.

"Whenever, I look at this picture, I think, one day, when he is better - I believe that God is going to give him a miraculous recovery - that we will get remarried again and do it right this time with a big wedding."

"That's because one thing that I know now that I didn't know then was that we have such as special bond."