Ross
An interesting concept that is nice to hear. People should be proud that there gay but it is not the preferred lifestyle for everyone. It often depends on your own experiences. I've had friends that have been chucked out on the streets for being gay. Is that the preferred lifestyle. I'm gay and proud of it but society oppresses so much sometimes that you feel dreadful. Also who said that I didn't want to go through all the traditional stuff, cause sometimes I think I would kinda like kids. I'd make a good dad. However so much judgement in society means that me being a dad may never happen. I certainly don't think thats the "preferred lifestyle," do you?

Camen
Well, its interesting if not slightly informative.