The True Nature of Love

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A spiritual comment and prayer to start the day with the Revd Dr Mark Clavier. Good morning. Today, we remember St Valentine, a third-century bishop who, according to tradition, was martyred for his faith and commitment to the sanctity of love and marriage. His witness reminds us that true love is never merely sentimental. It’s steadfast, self-giving, and rooted in the goodness of God. In our culture, Valentine’s Day celebrates romantic love, and rightly so—it’s a gift. Yet, love, in its fullness, is broader and deeper than romance. Romantic love may begin with a spark, but it flourishes when it’s cultivated with care and persistence in the rhythm of shared life. Christian love, or agape, reminds us that love isn’t confined to one kind of relationship. It’s the daily labour of seeking the good of another—whether a spouse, a friend, a stranger, or even an enemy. Love takes root in the ordinary: in the shared work of neighbours, the tending of a garden, or the unspoken trust between old friends. It’s found wherever we choose to nurture rather than harm, to bless rather than exploit. True love roots us in community and creation, calling us to honour the good in each other. This kind of simple love is like birdsong to our ears: a beauty that uplifts us with its presence. On this Valentine’s Day, let’s remember that love isn’t a fleeting feeling but a sacred calling—an echo of the love God shows us in Christ. Lord of love, we thank you for the gift of love in all its forms. Teach us to love as you love—steadfastly, sacrificially, and with joy. Help us to nurture love in our relationships, our communities, and your creation. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.