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| Friday, 6 December, 2002, 15:15 GMT Sir Nigel's partner welcomes 'terrific' news ![]() Trevor Bentham had a huge tax bill when Sir Nigel died Trevor Bentham told BBC News Online that moves to introduce the first officially recognised register of gay relationships and the same tax rights as married couples were "terrific". He first spoke out about the "terrible cruelty" of inheritance tax following Sir Nigel's death in December of last year.
It is a problem which faces thousands of people every year, including 81-year-old Michael Browning, who lost his partner of 50 years, Anthony Wallis, in August. Mr Browning also supported a new "record of relationships" for gay couples and called for a complete overhaul of current laws, which were "clearly founded on prejudice". 'Wretched' Mr Bentham said his lack of rights following Sir Nigel's death left him feeling as though they had been nothing more than flatmates in the eyes of the law.
He said that ploughing through their finances was a "wretched thing to have to do at a time of grief". Any changes in the law will come too late to help Mr Bentham, a self-confessed "reluctant" campaigner, but he is determined to see gay couples given equality with married couples. "If I see something wrong I get a bit 'street fighter'," he said. "And this seemed so wrong and although I could not do anything about it for myself it seemed terrible that other people would also have to go through it." Gay marriages Mr Bentham said that he and Sir Nigel had taken sound financial advice about the problems they would face, but the complexity of the issues still led to sleepless nights.
"Neither Nigel nor I were in favour of getting married," he added. "We would have skipped through that bit and gone straight to the legal contract." 'Utter devastation' Mr Bentham's views about the shortfalls of current laws are shared by many gay couples. Mr Browning told BBC News Online that he felt "utter devastation" following the death of Mr Wallis, an 89-year-old Alzheimer's victim. Apart from getting used to life alone after half-a-century together, the former social worker had to face the prospect that he could lose the home they shared. The value of the west London property and a cottage they owned had soared and Mr Browning was warned he could receive an inheritance tax bill of up to �400,000. He said: "I felt dreadful... and I still have to work it out somehow". As far as Mr Browning is concerned the time for equality is long overdue, with the government lagging years behind public opinion. "Among ordinary people - the people we saw every day - we were never questioned about our relationship, it was always accepted," he said. | See also: 06 Dec 02 | Politics 06 Dec 02 | Politics 07 Oct 02 | Politics 14 Nov 02 | UK 22 Apr 02 | UK 07 Aug 01 | UK Internet links: The BBC is not responsible for the content of external internet sites Top UK stories now: Links to more UK stories are at the foot of the page. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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