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| Monday, 2 September, 2002, 14:15 GMT 15:15 UK Bravo Romeo? ![]() Five possible influences for the name Romeo "You're always nervous having children," a grinning David Beckham told the waiting press shortly after the birth of his new baby. And the waiting world nodded with heartfelt agreement.
And so the sense of relief was palpable. Romeo Beckham. It could have been worse... a lot worse. Romeo is at least recognised as a real person's name (there are about 200 in Britain already). Unlike Brooklyn, of course, which until the birth of David and Victoria's first child three years ago, was merely associated with an urban landmass on the east coast of America. And with the Beckhams' A-list celebrity credentials, the omens had not looked good.
Jack and Chloe may be top of the list among those who have to hold down a mortgage and a nine to five job, but it is an entirely different tribe who occupy the pages of OK! and Heat magazines. If anyone needs reminding, there is Honey Kinny, Betty Kitten and Harvey Kirby - the children of the more prosaically named Jonathan Ross and Jane Goldman.
Clan elders include Dweezil and Moon Unit Zappa, Rolan Bolan, Ziggy Marley and Zowie Bowie (although he's now known as Duncan). In fact, silly names have never been the sole preserve of celebrity offspring. There was the case last year of the Brazilian father who named his child Osama Bin Laden and some years ago a Venezuelan lawyer with a Marxist bent named his three sons Vladimir, Ilich and Lenin.
Suddenly Lark Song and Summer Song - young members of Mia Farrow's extensive brood - don't seem too bad. All this must go down well in celebrity circles, but what is the long-term prognosis for the poor creatures who are saddled with such names? Surprisingly good, says Professor Helen Petrie, who has researched the psychology of naming. "There is of course the fact that unusual names mean you will be remembered. But there's no evidence to suggest you will suffer in later life for having an unusual name," she says.
What's the story? The trend for strange names has spilled over into the mainstream in recent years. "Parents used to take the saints and the royal family as inspiration for naming their children. Now they tend to look to Hello! magazine," says Ms Petrie. And that's not always a good thing, she advises. "There should be some story behind a name, some reason for it." In that sense, the Beckhams' choice of Brooklyn - it was where he was conceived - passes the test. And Romeo? Even in Italy, home to Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, it's not a common first name, says Ms Petrie.
"And, I know it's a boy's name, but it sounds, rather puzzlingly, feminine." Your comments so far: I was named after the original version of the film Sabrina - and my mother made it my second name, in case I didn't like it. The name Sabrina was considered unusual and exotic in the US and UK for a long time (until Sabrina the Teenage Witch came along). In Brazil, however, it's associated with transvestites and brothel keepers - and Brazilians think my first name is exotic (it's Helen). Having an unusual name has its benefits and its down points, you get remembered but also, your the girl with the strange name that noone can pronounce! Having a girl's name (I'm male) makes me much more memorable to new friends than my personality deserves, and gives me a (tenuous) reason to ignore credit cards who chase "Mrs" Wheeler for their bills. And it teaches you to be the baddest b*stard in the playground. I'll be tormenting my children in similarly character-building ways. "Marjorie" was originally my second name and my first name was "Sabekayo" which means something frightening in Zulu. I had a tough time at school - everyone used to laugh at me. I finally moved the name and removed Sabekayo totally. Two of my kids are called Flan and Chip, unusual names in this country, but no one forgets them. Romeo is a lovely name and actually isn't weird at all. Good choice and good luck mum and dad! I love having an unusual name, lots of people comment on what a pretty name I have. There were never two "Nicolette's" in my class at school, although I do remember being the last person in my class to be able to spell my name as it is so long! ...at least my name is unique - I think. Wendy is not altogether unusual, but I used to live in Denmark, where my name pronounced phonetically is Danish for window. Growing up was fun. My nan's middle name was Louvaine. She was named after a French town that was bombed during the first world war. Her father was serving in the army there and left the day before it was bombed. Which just happened to be the day she was born. I promised her that if I ever had a daughter i would give her that name. My three names are nothing unusual in themselves (Ian Richard Anthony), though my resulting initials are somewhat startling. This label would have paled in comparison to my parents initial plans, however, to name me Anthony Charles Edward. Shame, really, as I wouldn't have minded being called ACE Jordan. As a child it was humiliating to have an unusual name, and it always needs to be explained and spelled twice. Now I'm proud and pleased to have such a pretty and interesting name - and its a great way to start a conversation with an attractive stranger. I have not got that much of an unusual name I never really suffered until Kylie hit the scene, now whenever i tell anybody my name it becomes Kylie and will be spelt Kylie. Kylie is a nice name but mine is Kyla. Are you saddled with an unusual name? Or would you like one, to stand out from the crowd? |
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