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HEALTH FAMILY PROBLEMS RELATIONSHIPS EDUCATION & CAREER Dear What’s the Problem I am a young man of 26 and attracted to people of my own sex. This problem has been with me since boyhood and is an ever present tension that will not go away. I have many close friends but they never cross the boundaries of mere friendship. I just want someone who will accept me, love me and let me love them. Benjamin, India. Advice: Susie Hayman (Agony Aunt) This is not something to be ashamed of or seek a cure for. Benjamin should try to accept that he is gay. He should then contact and seek advice from other like minded people - perhaps through the internet or any organisations. Hopefully they will be able to support him while he comes to terms with his sexuality. The What's the Problem? website is providing general information only. It should not be treated as a substitute for the medical advice of your own doctor or any other health care professional. The BBC is not responsible or liable for any diagnosis made by a user based on the content of the What's the Problem? website. Always consult your own GP if you're in any way concerned about your health.		FURTHER INFORMATION   How many lesbians and gay men are there? Although figures vary, studies have estimated that 10% of the population is lesbian or gay for a significant part of their lives. It is difficult to determine exact percentages as many of those who are fearful of prejudice hide their sexual orientation.    INTERNET LINKS Gay Support Group   Indian Gay Club   The BBC is not responsible for the content of external Internet sites