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Two soldiers from the Great War

What happened to your family?

Lest we forget

The 90th anniversary of the end of the First World War approaches - we are looking for your family memories.

I still have the cap that my Grandpa wore during the Great War. Once I wore it when I played soldiers. I have his medals, spurs, even his artillery observation notebook.

Search through the pages and you find a hand-drawn picture of his sister, inked onto the yellowing pages on a day long ago, near the carnage of the Western Front.

Graphic:remembrance 90

But Grandpa was lucky; he came back. Many did not. In total, Britain lost almost 890,000 men between 1914 and 1918, mainly in the trenches of France and Belgium.

The Sussex Regiment alone lost over 6,800 men during the war. In Surrey, 6000 men died fighting for the East Surrey Regiment.

In Sussex, the writer Rudyard Kipling lost his only son, Jack, in 1915 at the Battle of Loos.

His loss reflected that of thousands of families across these two counties. In his poem ' 'My Boy Jack', the creator of the Just So Stories wrote:

'Have you news of my boy Jack?”
Not this tide.
“When d’you think that he’ll come back?”
Not with this wind blowing, and this tide.'

Henry Allingham, Britain's oldest man and a First World War veteran, has just published a book about his long life. He remembers those who lost their lives.
He wept at the launch of his book.

"I am here today not for me, but for all those who gave their lives on our behalf," he said.

A poppy

How do you remember?

"Thank goodness for those people. I could never thank them enough. If it wasn't for them, our privileges would have been destroyed. We probably would not even be here now.'

Henry's memories don't fade. But, as this November sees the 90th anniversary of the end of World War One, we're looking for your family memories. What's your Great War connection?

Have you got a story in your family about a relative who served? Like this one, for example, about Bexhill man Len Smith, who went into No Man's Land to draw German positions.

Tell your family story. Get in touch with us using the form on this page.




last updated: 08/10/2008 at 10:20
created: 24/09/2008

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Emma Harris, Surrey History Centre
The Surrey History Centre in Woking is holding a month of events to commemorate the 90th anniversary throughout November. These include talks from military historians, re-enactments, and book signings by military authors. There will also be a session for family historians to help trace their military ancestors. Please see www.surreycc.gov.uk/surreyhistorycentre or call 01483 51873.

John McFarlane
I have my fathers identification papers, plus his medals. I also have photos of him at this time. Also postcards with silk embroidered flowers, sent from the trenches.

Meg Everitt, Chair, Storrington & District Museum
To remember the 90th anniversary of the end of the First World War, Storrington & District Museum are holding a Family History day at the Old School, School Lane, Storrington, RH20 4LL, on Sunday 5th October, 10am to 4pm, which will include an interactive War Memorial project called “90 years on”. We are contacting local churches, British Legion, and local History Societies to invite people to bring any memorabilia they have of their relatives or friends whose names are on the local War Memorials list which we will display on the day. For more details see www.storringtonmuseum.org 'Family History' page

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