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Why I travelled with my husband to end his life

When Amy Bloom's husband Brian was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and told her he wanted to end his life on his terms, she listened and made up her mind to support him.

In 2019 American writer Amy Bloom's husband Brian was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. Within 48 hours of the diagnosis he'd decided he did not want what he called "the long goodbye". Instead he asked Amy to accompany him to Dignitas in Switzerland so that he could end his life on his terms. Assisted suicide is not only illegal in many countries but it's also an incredibly divisive topic and Amy had to confront all of these issues along the way. She's written a book about her experience and about what would be her last journey with Brian. It's called In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss.

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Presenter: Emily Webb
Producer: June Christie

(Photo: Amy Bloom. Credit: Ulf Andersen/Getty Images)

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