Main content

Missing Relatives: Luz Villamil and Visaka Dharmadasa

"It's not like a family member dying", a mother whose son went missing in action in Sri Lanka and a sister whose brother disappeared in Colombia share their experiences.

Visaka Dharmadasa is a celebrated Sri Lankan peace activist whose son went missing in action in 1998, while fighting for the Sri Lankan army against Tamil Tiger rebels. She won a landmark case against the government to get DNA checks done to trace missing soldiers and she works with mothers from both sides of the conflict, Tamils and Sinhalese, for a peaceful future. Visaka's work and her belief that her son is still alive keep her sane; she still keeps the chocolates in the freezer, that she bought for him 15 years ago, waiting for his return.

Luz Villamil is Colombian Palestinian. Her father was kidnapped by Farc left wing guerrillas in 1998, but released after 81 days. Luz's family's joy was short lived as two years later her brother went missing from a Colombian seaside resort. His disappearance has remained a mystery and they have no clues, only rumour and speculation. Luz hopes her brother is hearing the messages her family sends out on a Colombian radio show that features relatives of kidnapped and missing people.

Left: Luz Villamil, Credit: Angelika Bakou
Right: Visaka Dharmadasa. Credit: None

Available now

27 minutes

Broadcasts

  • Mon 5 Oct 201502:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201503:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201504:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201505:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201506:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201516:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201518:32GMT
  • Mon 5 Oct 201521:32GMT
  • Sat 10 Oct 201510:32GMT
  • Sun 11 Oct 201500:32GMT

The best of The Conversation

The best of The Conversation

Enlightening, inspiring, revealing: Some of our favourite Conversations so far

100 Women

100 Women

Global experience on image, work, relationships, equality, migration and working lives

Podcast